I am depressed and if I tell my dad he will just say that I`m ok and that I only want atention. My brother hates me, he never cared about me and he never told me that he loves me. If I think he never asked how my day was or anything else. I don`t have friends and I don`t know what to do. My brother always says that I get everything. When he has an ipod and when I asked my dad if he can buy me a laptop (mine is old and wrecked) he said that I don`t deserve it because I don`t have good grades. I`m the 5th in my class and my brother will have to repet the class! And I`m the one who doesn`t deserve anything and who gets everything! He gets an Ipod for nothing and last year for my birthday and Christmas I didn`t get nything. I just want to be given away for adoption or run away from home or just get killed. I think it just isn`t worth living my life!
2007-02-12 07:38:42 · 13 answers · asked by silly_bitch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I beg of u not hurt yourself it's just materialistic things okay. Let me ask u something where is your mom? Now u say christmas and birthday u did not get anything? u want to run away or get killed or be adopted those r cruel things to say about yourself..Yes it is worth living..You just have to find a solution to the problems okay.
1st problem/Depressed-u must have favorite Teacher at School u can talk to..They can help u so please go talk to them are someone.
2nd problem/brother hate u-well it will go away soon most siblings dislike each other and word LOVE u have gotten to be kidding we don't tell each other that..I am sure he love u just refuse to show it we hurt differently..Do u ever ask him how his day was? maybe he feel the same way.
3rd problem/ Get a part-time job and save for your laptop don't depend on dad get it yourself make yourself happy.Do not allow anyone else to control your happiness...u have good things going for u grades..what make u happy take time and focus on that...don't try to live in another's world it's big enough to create your own... go for it .
Sell old laptop and other electronics u don't want and get new laptop... u can find ways okay..think about this...u were smart enough to get advice right? u r smart enough to stay alive and do things for yourself and seek help out side of your family..
Remember please talk to someone Teacher, counselor, a friend Parents, any one u trust..Because your live is very special...Who knows u might grow to be President, or great Scientist who discover cure for deadly disease..Please don't give up get help and let me know how things turn out okay...Because I care
2007-02-12 08:16:16 · answer #1 · answered by youaskIanswer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I noticed your choice of identity - silly_****! How do you feel about yourself? I ask because sometimes people do not take us seriously when we do not believe in ourselves. I have a feeling that your brother is younger than you. Sometimes our parents seem to favour the younger sibling but this is not always true. If you are older, your parents hope that you can set a good example for the younger ones and they tend to put more pressure on you without realizing it. If you ask for a laptop just because your brother got an ipod your parents might feel a bit let down by your childish behaviour and refuse to buy you one on principle. However, if you behave like a grown up and explain that you need the lap-top for your homework and school related research, I am sure they will consider. Stop trying to compete with your brother because it puts pressure on your parents. Remember they have to work very hard for your education, food, clothing, everyday bills, transport and many other things as well as try to save a little money everyday so you can have a family holiday. They want your support and understanding as much as you want theirs. Why don't you do your bit? I guarantee your parents will change their attitude when you become less demanding and more understanding. Be a big girl and lead the way darling. You can do it if you try and keep trying. Good luck.
2007-02-12 16:12:05 · answer #2 · answered by kahahius 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok darling, listen, no one is worthless, it is not you but the other people who dont realize. every kid passes thru this, dont worry too much, take it in a positive way.
Study hard and become a successful woman, then you wont need anyone to take care of you, neither would you worry about these small things.
Dont even think about adoption, running away or killed!! that is a waste and by doing anything like that , you will prove them right that you were worthless.
If you think you deserve all the things you do, show them !! Have confidence in yourself and you shall win.
2007-02-12 15:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by abhi_in_hsv 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
People will tell you to get help, which I recommend as well, but obviously it's not what you want to hear. Where's your mom? Why is she standing by letting this happen to you? that is, if she's there. It sound's to me like a bit of sibling rivalry. That may or may not change with time. I've felt the same way you do, I just let it go, but sometimes we go back to those day's and fight like children. It seem's to me that what your mainly depressed over is the fact that you're not getting what you want. I'd bet that your brother is older than you. Older sibling's and youngest siblings usually get the most attention....
2007-02-12 16:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by Sissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life is extremely precious and you shouldn't take your own life just because things aren't going your way sometimes! Talk to your parents and tell them how you feel. If they don't want to listen, then you should speak to a counselor at your school or seek some therapy. Also, most importantly, keep your mind focused on school. Besides, your parents know that you're the most important person in their lives and they should acknowledge that. Good luck and I hope you're feeling better!
2007-02-12 15:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your family have negative feelings like this sometimes too you know, we all do...when you feel this way it's lifes way of separating the weak from the strong. If you;re strong you'll get through these feelings and learn to deal with life, if you're weak you could do a number of things..whine all your life, turn to drugs etc etc.
You have to realise that we're all alone in this life, it's up to you how you live your life and how other people perceive you. Be strong, get a part time job and buy your own laptop, you'll feel better and your dad will probably be proud of you! Trust me, it always feels good to do things for yourself. ps I hate my brother too, mollycoddled spoiled brat!
2007-02-12 15:57:00 · answer #6 · answered by ✩☆✩HAPPINESS✩☆✩ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow
well u know think of it this
way there is kids who live in homes with ppl who are there foster parents who dont care for them who kids who have to live in group homes
u have a laptop I dont even have a laptop and ppl call me spoiled
I think they ur feeling is way deeper than not getting a laptop and feeling like u have no friends
and I would talk to a school counsuler I wish u all the best dont feel u need to get killed thats a little dramatic
2007-02-12 15:56:14 · answer #7 · answered by miss83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i care about it and about you. if you need someone to talk to e-mail me at ctaylor_2003@yahoo.com. i am trying to get more people in your same situation to do the same thing. there are good people out there who understand, you just have to find them. go ahead an e-mail me when you get the chance. you can ask anything that is on your mind and i will do the best i can to help you out. words can't express how hard this must be for you. hope to hear from you soon. good luck.
2007-02-12 15:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I was your age again cause I'm 36 & feel like I wanna be killed at times, enjoy your childhood while you can-as soon as your an adult it may be worse-otherwise ask your teacher about help. I had therapy in school.
2007-02-12 16:04:22 · answer #9 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You aren't depressed, you are jealous of your brother, there's a big difference. You are constantly comparing yourself to your brother, no wonder you feel down all the time. You are not your brother!
2007-02-12 15:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by arewethereyet 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋