and if hes not home, she gets ahold of you and asks you where he is all the time? should i yell at her or what? ive talked to my boyfriend about it but he insists that he doesnt even want to talk to her, yet she is still calling him. what should i do?
2007-02-12 07:28:12 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yep. Give him hell about it.
2007-02-12 07:31:15 · answer #1 · answered by Dusty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you are in a sticky situation. Do you know this girl very well? She could be psycho! I had a girl that always called my ex all the time and when he told me he didn't want to have anything to do with her I tried to politely ask her to stop and it made things worse. She'd show up places that we frequented and she'd call more. She even threatened me once or twice! I suggest getting a phone number change or have him tell her that he doesn't want to communicate with her anymore when she calls next...
sorry you have to go through this, I've been there before.
Good luck!
2007-02-12 15:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES! no one says you have to be her friend just because he's friends with her! Tell her off next time and be like "why do you constantly call???" if he gets mad oh well, turn the situation around on him and ask, "what if a guy was calling me as much as she calls you?" Cuz i know he would most likely flip out. Guys have to have control and they LOVE the double standard. But that DOESNT mean you have to be nice to her and take her ****.
2007-02-12 15:33:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to get on the phone, with you there, and tell her that it is not appropriate for her to be calling and doing that. If she keeps it up, then you need to let her know that if it doesn't stop you will have the numbers changed and she will not have them. If she gets the new number, then it's time to find out whether or not he really doesn't want to talk to her?
2007-02-12 15:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by Meadow Soprano 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it would bother me and if it didn't stop I would break up with him. There's nothing you can do about her, she is an outside person. You need to talk to your boyfriend about this and don't make threats you aren't willing to go through with (like breaking up with him) otherwise he will always walk all over you.
As far as she goes, don't answer her calls. You need to give your BF an ultimatum--either you or her.
2007-02-12 15:34:13 · answer #5 · answered by rchl782 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the girl and tell her that her doing what she's doing is bothering you. Don't tell her she can never talk to him but tell her to back off a little bit. If that doesn't work then make your boyfriend deal with it.
2007-02-12 15:36:35 · answer #6 · answered by PB&J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it kinda goes both ways in my situation. my girlfriend says that this guy that calls her at all times of the night is UGLY but i trust her. And she has met my female friend that calls me at all times of the night but she trust me. so it all falls down to trust. but if he is saying that he dosent talk to her then tell her to back off. plus you never know maybe she is a stalker groupie.
2007-02-12 15:35:20 · answer #7 · answered by nickmesa2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that girl call again to your bf sit with him and he should be the one to tell her stop calling me coz i dont want to talk to you.and u listen whats your bf telling her.u know a guy sometimes they lie but they keep on contacting i know that. i dont mean every man doing that she wont call him if he doesnt want to talk to her..i hope u know what i mean..
2007-02-12 15:39:22 · answer #8 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop answering the phone, she is stalking him for some reason. I believe your bf when he says that he does not want to talk to this person
2007-02-12 15:33:50 · answer #9 · answered by stringhead3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the next time of her calling be the last. Let her know what's on your mind and how you feel towards the whole ordeal.
2007-02-12 15:33:29 · answer #10 · answered by cOMpLiCaTeD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well then. tell your boyfriend if he really didnt want to talk to her he wouldnt answer her and he would tell her that he has a gf and thats wrong! CHECK YOUR MAN! you know how guys are! and that girl is a skank i can tell. forget her i bet there are alot of other girls that hate her too! lol
2007-02-12 15:32:04 · answer #11 · answered by celeste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋