of past intimacy between the two of you, yet he already has another girlfriend who he claims to love...what does this mean? and if he loved his girlfriend then why even think about me?
I have no intentions of wanting him back, EVER! I was spurned once but not again, I was just curious......
2007-02-12 07:27:39 · 28 answers · asked by Tiffany Rae 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is probably not getting enough sex from his present girlfriend, and is trying to score with your friend (assuming the friend is female).
2007-02-12 07:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Jack Chedeville 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most men by nature want to have "relations" with more than one woman. Movies and TV are to blame for this misconception. For most men, if they find the right person and are head over heels, then this urge dwindles (although does not disappear).
By this guy "thinking" about you, he is reliving the good points and is probably thinking about thing more ideally than they really occurred.
He definitely would "hook-up" with you given the chance although would not if he thought he would be caught.
There is also a slim chance that he actually does think well about you and wants people to see him as a "good guy". Odds are however that he wants to easily make you swoon, have a poke and then leave to never talk to you again until months down the road when he will try to repeat it.
Expect a phone call in a few weeks. He will play it off as he is just "Checking up" to make sure you are "alright".
2007-02-12 15:36:46 · answer #2 · answered by Geiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible to love more than one woman. A part of me still loves all the women I loved in the past. That does not mean I would be able to forget the pain they caused me in breaking up but that love is still there. Any strong enough emotion burns it's imprint into your soul. Memories of love are mixed with those of pain but the love is still there.
2007-02-12 15:32:47 · answer #3 · answered by aiguyaiguy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your ex is "trolling" for another round with you and your friend is being used to pass the word along, just in case you still haven't had enough. You should let his current girlfriend know about such indiscretions...
2007-02-12 15:31:52 · answer #4 · answered by Dr. J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called an inferiority complex, usually. However, hindsight is 20/20. Maybe he is just now realizing what a great piece of GF you were. That or you were the mad note in the sack!
2007-02-12 15:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it means he doesnt even know what he wants and hes not in love with this other girl if hes telling ur friend hes thinking of you...or hes trying to be a pimp dont fall for it he was probabaly doing the same thing when u guys were dating just like hes doing to his new gf guys are jerks!!!
2007-02-12 15:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by **Mami of 2 Girls** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have not intentions of wanting him back or even feeling that you miss him, you would not even have posted this. Right?
2007-02-12 15:30:19 · answer #7 · answered by Mark L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i personaly have two ex gfs that i am close to and thy both come to me with all of there problems its just tht we were close before we dated and just stayed that way we rnt physicly close other thn the occational hug and on her part kiss on the cheek your ex may be looking for something like that. and i mean i go to one of my exs whn im sick and stuff couse Caitlin lives 1500 miles away (yes long distance relationships) and she goes to her friend who is a guy for tht stuff too and whn im around i take care of her its lol weird i know
2007-02-12 15:35:13 · answer #8 · answered by Deshawn M 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
most people have some feelings for old flames, it could mean anything, that he regrets breaking up with you. that he wants you back. or just a moment of thinking of you,
2007-02-12 15:35:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to use that "other girl" to replace you but deep down inside he really loves you. When he looks at her, im sure he see's you. Silly boy shouldnt have lost you to begin with. =)
2007-02-12 15:32:19 · answer #10 · answered by Brittany B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋