This guy that I liked and I decided not to go forward with an affair. I asked him how he really felt about me and he said, "I don't want to say because 20 years from now I want you to be proud of me and yourself." What do you think he's saying?
2007-02-12 07:27:34 · 10 answers · asked by willow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
probably that if he told you how he really felt... that he would probably do something he would regret... and that you would regret...
2007-02-12 07:30:20 · answer #1 · answered by AvidBeerDrinker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope I'm reading your question properly...I think you're saying that you decided not to have an affair with him, but you were curious to know how he felt about you. I think what he means is that since you have decided to take the high road, he wants you to look back in 20 years and see that he took the high road also.
2007-02-12 07:31:32 · answer #2 · answered by Liza 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to know that he respects you and that you are not cheap. He want you to look back 20 years from now and say wow he was a gentleman he didn't take advantage of me.
2007-02-12 07:31:05 · answer #3 · answered by kewlkatty00 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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He wasn't trying to say anything. That is a cop out for rejection is all. He wants to seem like he's in control of the situation, but he feels rejected by your decision.
Now, you'll get the brush off from him and distance to avoid communication.
You did good, in this case. Shows he wasn't mature enough to handle your opinion and decision.
One love..................
2007-02-12 07:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by HottNikkels 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he rather be friends cuz if you guys break up then you may never talk again!!! (thats the 20 yrs thing!!!)
2007-02-12 07:31:53 · answer #5 · answered by shortyjay123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is saying both of you shouldn't do it, in the long run you will feel better about yourself
2007-02-12 07:30:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to avoid your question....
2007-02-12 07:31:59 · answer #7 · answered by Dj_SouL 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i promise that he just wanna f0ck u!
2007-02-12 07:32:38 · answer #8 · answered by P J 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your just a peice of ***
2007-02-12 07:30:06 · answer #9 · answered by squekie0874 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No.
2007-02-12 07:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ben D 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋