my boyfriend broke up with me two monts ago and today was supposed to be our 4th anniversary and i was so depressed today and valentine's day is in two days and i just want to die. Every time i see him i either make a fool of myself or start crying or almost cry. what should i do?
2007-02-12 07:20:31 · 11 answers · asked by butterfly girl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the best thing that you can do is fake it. f
ake like you are ok.
he gets power from knowing that you still have feelings for him.
\my bf broke up with me a little over a month ago. and when i see him, i act like it doesn't bother me.
that maybe, he never meant as much to me as he thought he did.
although i am pretty much over it.
love is blind but revenge is sweet. and i would rather eat something sweet on v-day than be blind any day....
but the main reason i answered your question, is the guy above me gave me best answer, then said tomorrow 'he will be dead'. and i don't know how to take that. i am seriously scared for him. i hope he was joking and that i am just being stupid.
either way, i hope that my answers reach someone, even if i never get a best answer again.
2007-02-13 02:55:05 · answer #1 · answered by lil' angel 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guessing that you're probably still young right? when i was in grade 10 my boyfriend broke up with me and left me totally heart broken to the point of where if i saw him in the halls at school I'd have to turn around and walk the other way or i would cry upon seeing him....as cheesy and cliche as it sounds - TIME does heal everything. keep yourself busy and make sure to see your girlfriends for some quality time and in no time you'll be wondering what all of the fuss was about.
2007-02-12 07:27:07 · answer #2 · answered by sa-da-tay 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say if you love something to let hit go if it comes back its meant to be if not well......... My best advise to you is make him suffer, go out of your way to show him that you are fine you are glad he let you go because he was holding you back now this may not be true but I have found that they respond better to an emotionally strong women rather than a cry baby.... They need to be needed but they do not want to be needed if that makes any sense. Good Luck and keep in mind if he doesn't come back there is a someone out there for ya and he was just training for an even more perfect relationship.
2007-02-12 07:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by squekie0874 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand, going through the same thing. Our anniversary was supposed to be the day after Vday, it's tough. I've had to make myself stay busy & I have done a lot of praying. These are a few things I've had to read to myself over & over . . .
"There are people that can walk away from. When people can walk away from you, let them go. - Your destiny is never tied to anyone that left."
"If someone can't treat you right, love you back, & see your worth . . . let it go!"
"People leave you because they are not joined to you, you can't make them stay, let them go! - It means their part of the story is over."
Here is a prayer for you:
"Lord, I come to you, my heart is worn out & I need you. Take my heavy burden today. Amen."
2007-02-12 07:33:15 · answer #4 · answered by princessfoo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
oh sweetie i know EXACTLY how you feel, im going through it now.. im finding it harder and harder everyday. but try to get out with your friends more. try not to be alone at all. crying is okay though, it relieves stress and makes you feel better. but dont feel sorry for yourself cause its bad on your self respect. im sure there are other guys out there for you. some might even be better.. jus wait it out and you will be just fine.
2007-02-12 07:25:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl.. i know its hard but ger over him please. i know u think u cant love another but its because u are so upset that you dont go out and meet other guys! their is another guy that you can love more and that is hotter than him and that will love you more.. u just have to wait [[iknow waittin is a pain]] but itll be worth it trust me. and dont feel bad i dont have a v-day neither[[if that makes you feel any better]] go wiit your girls!!
2007-02-12 07:30:00 · answer #6 · answered by celeste 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang out with family and friends more and do things with them. If you see him, just pretend you didn't and move on. I know how you feel, it's hard but you will move on. good luck!
2007-02-12 07:25:13 · answer #7 · answered by jenandybell03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never had a girl till valentiene's day... they always left me.
do you think it's funny?
2007-02-12 07:37:37 · answer #8 · answered by Siamack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
on v-day go out with some of your friends and you prob won't think about him
2007-02-12 07:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by Brittani S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take yourself out and buy yourself some flowers, you are your own valentine and you are special
2007-02-12 07:24:27 · answer #10 · answered by kathleen h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋