Hiya ppl, i split up with this guyy last november, which my mum was extremely happy about, but i continued to maintain contact with him, but recently i found out hes found some one knew, but heres the twist, the person he found is a set up from my parents, the gurl who he has been talking to doesnt actually exist they just made her up to get him to stay away from me, thing is, i still have a little thing for him, but i feel like if i tell him he's gonna think im physco and making it all up (he already thinks im crazy) but i loved the way he made me feel, he didnt do much he was just him self and that was enough, wat shuld i do peeps? i got rid of his number, so i culd email him or i culd jus find some one else and move on... (not that i want to) help... ps..mum if u read this...i know..
2007-02-12 07:03:59 · 13 answers · asked by ladee_in_luv 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh ye just so it makes more sense, my mum has used a friend or summat to tlk to him as this fake gurl, so that its more real, if that makes sense, and so if i tell him, hes gna so think im lieing, the only thin defending the fact that im telling the truth is that he hasnt met up with her and theyve been tlking for about 2 months..
2007-02-12 09:01:17 · update #1
Move on,after all it didnt take much for him to be distracted from you, whether its was your parents doing or not!!
2007-02-12 07:13:23 · answer #1 · answered by EZ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi LinL
I have a bit of a prob understanding what has gone on & why?... I can only think that there is much more to this situation than what you are letting on about
In which case makes it difficult for me to give you any 'complete' sort of answer.
My gut feeling on reading you Q. is that there is something very wrong here, & that is backed up enormously by the fact that your parents have gone to these EXTREME measures.
To be honest I think you should move on, otherwise you gonna prove your ex right when as you say ''he already thinks you are crazy'')
Give yourself a break & stop trying so hard to find something that isn't there
Be patient & when you meet someone else just try to keep it simple & within reason, & maybe more private from your parents (I worry bout your age here) try not to get so many complications in your future relationships with people (inc. your parents)
It will make your life a lot easier & help your parents to see that you are thinking wisely & they will respect you more if you make decisions in a more mature way, ( this will also keep them off your back) this respect & trust has to be earned, so think sensible here, after all they only want what is best for you & don't want to see you get hurt.
Don't communicate with your mum by text, try having a talk to her... try to have a better understanding of each others views on things, after all you should both be on the same side!
Peace & love
2007-02-16 05:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by healer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! ur parents have gone way 2 far. the only thing i can think of u doin is 2 get a webcam or something hidden in view of the pc and able 2 zoom in on the either the writing or the profile pics or somefin like that but also be able to get ur parents in there sumwhere, u can then show them this and tell him that u shud secretly get back 2geva, and he pretends 2 lose interest in his new 'girlfriend', then ur parents will stop.
good luck wiv woteva u do, and i wud also plan sum sort of revenge on ur parents, but i dont kno wot sort of thing would be best 4 ur parents... only u could really decide that. just an option extra
2007-02-12 07:19:43 · answer #3 · answered by Amie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest that you just let it go babe. if you mum would do something like that to keep you guys apart (mum by the way, soooo not cool) it means she doesn't think hes god enough for you and you might not agree but mums tend to have better judgement than ourselves coz they have been there and done all that ( yes all those things you get up, mummy's done them). just let it go unless you think he is worth it. only you can answer that question. just think about and you might be surprised at the answer.
2007-02-12 07:19:42 · answer #4 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents will go this far to keep you two apart... WOW. Mom if you read this.. NOT A GOOD IDEA. If I were him I wouldnt believe it either, but you could always tell him and give him a few things to say to your parents now that he knows it's them.
2007-02-12 07:09:08 · answer #5 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are sad.........he has not been going out with youso why do they need to get involved very immature
Also he has not met her then otherwise he would know....
sad sad sad move on
2007-02-16 02:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by sylvie c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what? why would your parents making up a new girlfriend make him stay away from you? did he believe in his imaginary girlfriend? this all sounds a bit bizarre.
2007-02-12 07:12:57 · answer #7 · answered by G*I*M*P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make urself happy u like him try again do what U want.
2007-02-12 07:48:53 · answer #8 · answered by green 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dunno bout the rest but i think your parents are out of order! dont think u should mention wot they did 2 this guy...if u wanna try and rekindle things then fine...but take your folks out of the equation.
2007-02-12 07:11:24 · answer #9 · answered by carly-jayne r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its your life not theirs, tell them you appreciate their input, but its your decision, and that is that
2007-02-12 07:28:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋