How do I deal with a boy that I like so much, and he likes me but we don't go together and we keep everything on the down low, and everytime I turn around I here something bad about him again. And every time he makes me mad I stop liking him, but everytime he does something sweet again I start liking him again, and I don't want him to think I'm sprung over him how do I handle this situation!!!
2007-02-12 07:02:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on you don't get along already
2007-02-12 07:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's got a problem...he's not being honest with you. Either he doesn't like you or he's keeping you on the down-low because he's a player.
You need to start thinking about his actions. I know people say that you ought to judge someone by how they treat you in private, but still...if he's never round you with other people around and you two aren't going together...it's time to let him go.
He doesn't feel the same way as you do...cos if he did, he wouldn't change his personality everytime someone shows up.
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2007-02-12 15:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by ♠Gotham♠ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he knows how to manipulate you. It's hard to be objective when you are in the middle. I would say to wait until he's grown out of this immature stage. If he wants you, he needs to be a man. Boys play games. There are other guys out there and you shouldn't limit yourself to one guy who strings you along. Would you really want to date a guy who is constantly making you mad? People don't change overnight. Keep him at arm's length until he grows up, hon.
2007-02-12 15:08:44 · answer #3 · answered by pookiemct07 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi honey i am going thru the exact same situation. You love this guy but your still a teen so you dont understand explain ur feelings and express urself tell him your tired of the on and off situation and u want a stable loving relationship if he dont agree 2 it leave him he isnt worth **** trust me sweethart. Wish u da best
2007-02-12 15:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu should not have to keep your going out on the dl and if you do you know you are doing something bad and that is probably why uyou are not likeing him anymore, just move on to the next one, just remember "men are like buses another one comes along every 15min."
2007-02-12 15:06:37 · answer #5 · answered by glossy-n-fly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is time to get off the rollercoaster ride before you get seriously sick. Your relationship has already become like a drug. He gives you a major high and then you get that major low. It is not a good situation. Get out, get off the rollercoaster. Pick a better ride.
2007-02-12 15:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kalypso 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you not want him to think you are sprung over him? Why hid what you truly are? If he cannot see you for who you are, can he have fealings for the real you? Do you want him to like you or do you want him to like you for who you truly are? If you just want to make him like what he sees as "you", then just play to his likes and disslikes. If not then it gets a little tricky. Also I would read this article.
2007-02-12 15:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by Michael M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the best hting to do would be to maybe be his friend. you know what me and my friends get mad at each other all of the time. but we work it out.
2007-02-12 15:06:49 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think you should leav him because he is just weasting up your time and his so just stop seeing him and go with somebody else.
2007-02-12 15:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by Edwin D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋