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hi
i have problem with my sister. she's 15 and i am 16. she got very nice body.
The problem is that she wears at home pajamas but without bra and sometimes without panty , and she says "that is more comfortable"...some times she walk from the toilet to her room naked when she has a bath coz she doesnt like changing her clothes in bathroom.

********Is that normal?******

2007-02-12 06:55:58 · 7 answers · asked by \\//H\\// 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Parenting

7 answers

It's disturbing.

It's even more disturbing if you're a guy.

Personally, I don't think the going around without a bra is a huge issue, as long as she's making sure nothing shows through. Bras are not comfortable, and if she's at home, lounging around, she should not have to be forced to wear one because it bothers you that she doesn't.

Going around naked is going beyond not caring about her own rights to privacy or her own lack of modesty, it's intruding on your rights to privacy. Talk to your parents and let them know that it bothers you that she walks around nude from the bathroom to the bedroom. At the very least, she should use a towel, or a robe, to cover herself.

Honestly, I grew up with myself and two sisters, and we were all very lax about that kind of thing when we knew it was just my mom and ourselves at home, but we did at least make attempts at not being exhibitionists outside our own bedrooms. If my dad was around, we did take further precautions to be modest.

2007-02-12 07:03:50 · answer #1 · answered by CrazyChick 7 · 2 1

i am 28 and i do not wear undergarments under my pajamas because i do not sleep in them. however, she does need to have clothes on when she comes out of the bathroom. her being comfortable with her own body is great, but she lives with other people and needs to respect their wishes of not seeing her naked all the time.

2007-02-12 07:04:04 · answer #2 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 1 1

Yes she is normal. Quit checking out your sister. If you are really unable to not look at her, talk to your parents and complain about her inappropriateness. They can talk to her about wearing a robe to and from the bath...but really, if she has a shirt without a bra JUST DONT LOOK AT YOUR SISTERS BOOBS@

2007-02-12 07:48:40 · answer #3 · answered by leahivan 2 · 0 2

it can be normal if she is comfortable with her body. My 12 year old will walk around in his underwear when we are home and I have to explain to him that he needs to respect me. Let your parents know that this is uncomfortable for you.

2007-02-12 08:06:43 · answer #4 · answered by momof3 6 · 0 1

Yes, that's normal. She is comfortable with herself. What's wrong with you that you think there is something wrong with being naked at home?

2007-02-12 07:05:03 · answer #5 · answered by Huggles-the-wise 5 · 1 1

Yea it is fi it is comfortable to then thats her style

2007-02-12 08:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by Mommie of 3 1 · 1 0

Sounds like a hussy to me,lol
She likes to show off her body and if she continutes this way she'll get kidnapped,raped pregnant, or even killed.
Better talk to your parents about your concerns is what I would do.

2007-02-12 07:20:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 4

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