MY father and stepmother quarrelling all the time.?

Question

My father and my stepmother quarrells all the time and the start from their room and bring it outside and sometimes even fight, I just don't know what to do and my stepmother usually brings my mother up whisch I hate cuz she hasn't done anything to her for her to talk bad about my mother, I don't know if to talk back when she talks about my mother cuz it's not me she is quarrelling with but it's my mother and I hate it.

Answer 1

The mature thing to do is speak to your stepmother about this when they are not fighting. Tell her how it makes you upset and that you understand that she is angry at your father, but that your mother doesn't deserve to be dragged into their arguments. We are all human and do stupid things when angry, so try to separate yourself from it, even though you are naturally protective of your mother. Be sure to talk to your stepmother when the emotions of an argument aren't involved. And make sure she understands that you are not eavesdropping, that their arguments are so loud and obvious that you can't help but hear them. Perhaps that will help your father and stepmother to keep their arguments in their own room and between themselves. Good luck and God Bless.

Answer 2

Your stepmother is not comfortable with the relationship with you and your dad. I don't how close you are to your dad and mom, but you need to talk to them and let them know how uncomfortable you with the problem.

You are smart not to get involve in an argument with your step-mother, even if she was to shove her anger directly at you. Her problem is not your fault and I don't know why your dad continues with this abusive relationship. My true advice is find another place you can live. Perhaps, your mom's house or trusted relative where you don't to continue to witness this them fighting? Do what ever can do to leave your their home and find a safe place to live.

Remember, don't get involve with their quadrilling! I will keep you in my prayers.
God Bless

Answer 3

-Is there any approach you'll are living together with your mom and stepfather? If no longer, attempt to keep out of each and every ones approach and whilst you cannot, be as superb as feasible; talk best while spoken to, attempt to see matters you'll do