We dated for 10 months. I broke up with him because i was scared of settling down. We haven't spoken in 2 months he contacted me over the weekend and says whats up. We get back together.He tells me he still loves me and still cares alot for me. Don't get me wrong. But i do also. We talked about setling down having kids living together, etc.(when we were together)But next morning he tells me he was kind of seeing someone else. So it was obviously off. So he suggest we be friends and see how things go. I honestly don't know if i can do that Because i want him more than a friend we have diferent kind of feelings than just being friends. I love him alot. This is just hard i don't know what to do. I went to the girl of his dreams that he loves to the friend who was once the girlfriend. i'm clueless at this time. it was a the best realationship. He treated me good. Never cheated on me none of that. Didn't expect sex out of me. We never had sex came close to it but didn't.i miss him!!!
2007-02-12 06:47:07 · 5 answers · asked by yungn8tive1807 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NNNOOOO! Cut the contact. that guy is no good! He is a class A heartbreaker. How could he talk to you about that stuff and then all of a sudden talk about having kids? No. If you go on even just being friends with this guy then he may hurt you even more. Yea it'll take months or maybe longer to get over that fact, but it will help you in the longrun.Please for your own sake. Put yourself first in this type of situation.
2007-02-12 07:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by FML 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is difficult, many women out there have been through this. I too am now best friends with one of my ex's (we were together for about a year and a half). However, we were friends before we started dating and I believe that helped. I'd let the guy know of your feelings. And both of you sit down and just talk it out. See how comfortable you both are being around each other in a "friend"ly atmosphere. You'll know deep inside whether or not you two can go from dating to just friends. And trust your instincts.
2007-02-12 15:00:06 · answer #2 · answered by l8yjc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been in the same situation and all I can say is the best thing to do is to completly cut him out of your life, because if you continue being friends wit him when you want more it'll just hurt you more! i miss my ex too but i realized I had to let go. because i was just getting hurt more by holding on. Im sorry it turned out that way. I feel your pain
2007-02-12 14:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by PAISA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well when my ex boyfriends ask me to lets just be friends i just give it a chance so that all of the feelings that we had for each other will simply fade away and becomes feelings like you have for most of your friends. plus you can be closer to him and trust him even more and you can have a shoulder to lean on when you go through bad times. plus someone to go to when you need help. well thats the way it is with my ex boyfriends cause i got to know them like i never did. in the begining it feels somehow to some people like ashamed but if you focus you will get far on being his frind.
2007-02-12 15:31:38 · answer #4 · answered by alyssa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him your true feelings.
2007-02-12 14:52:19 · answer #5 · answered by sweetladytease 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋