I mean its not like fat girls are gross or anything we are just like the skinny girls only we are bigger...... Im 14 yrs old and I had a boyfriend and he broke up with me cause i was fat. ( He said tht right to my face) I only weigh 147lbs.
2007-02-12 06:43:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well first of all he's an *** hole. and second of all your at the time in your life when boys are more into looks, and what they can get out of you, than looking for the sweet someone that truly makes them happy. Unfortunatly they do mature much slower than females, and sometimes they never do. But once they get older, and they go through the string of skinny bitches that cheat and don't appreciate them, they wisen up and start looking for that someone that makes them feel whole; their better half. Not all guys like just skinny girls. Alot of it is self confidence, your charisma, and overall personality. I'm super skinny and pretty, but guys don't like me all that much. Some think that I'm annorexic and they dont want to be with someone who has a bad self image and low self esteem. they dont find that attractive. it's also because I put on this don't mess with me attitude. Unfortunatly i've been hurt so much that i'm now a DATER HATER. So like I said, alot of it has to do with confidence, self esteem, and your personality/charisma. Hang in there girl! your 14 and have plenty of time ahead of you to date and have a good time. Wait till you get to college! all that middle school/high school cliche's and clicks dissapear. people are much kinder and much more accepting. It will be here before you know it! and you say yea right. well i thought the same thing and now I'm sitting her in my bio class ignoring my professor, answering questions on yahoo, thinking where did highschool go?
2007-02-12 07:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U r SO NOT fat!!!! That guy is a loser who was just looking for a mean way to get outta the relationship!! About the skinny thing, i am kinda "thick" too, so im wondering the same thing....Not all guys go for the skinny, high maintenance brats who cheat on them all the time...pretty soon ur gonna meet that special someone and tht guy who called u fat will probably regret breaking up with you!!!
2007-02-12 09:02:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Baby girl...You are beautiful just the way you are....Forget that loser! Actually, Thick is how a lot of men prefere women now a days anyway. Forget about that jerk girl and do something for you... Join a dance team or play a sport...that way it'll help you get into great shape and feel better about yourself. Just remember, heath is a choice for you baby girl and muscle weighs more then fat...Pay no attention to the superficial crap...Good Luck!
2007-02-12 06:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by Kamaria 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Wow. He sucks. I mean there are a lot of guys who would go with bigger girls. I'm just not one of them....So good luck, I guess.
2007-02-12 06:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not true...i dont like too skinny girls...like Marisa from O.C., i prefer not that too skinny...something like Charlize Theron is cool.
2007-02-12 06:48:44 · answer #5 · answered by Bobi G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know but dont warry about it..he is SO not worth you, you could do better..did you know that there are some guys out there that dont like skinny girls? well, there are...just give it time and you'll find someone that treats you right, theres someone out there who will like you for who you are and not for your weight... :)
2007-02-12 06:49:29 · answer #6 · answered by cute as a button!.♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a loser & you are better of without him. He only said that because he was looking for an excuse.
2007-02-12 06:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by ms_marcia_brady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry sweetheart, you don't want to be with someone like that anyways... plus you are not fat... and don't let anyone tell you that you are... there will be someone that comes along that likes you for you... just be patient :)
2007-02-12 06:50:41 · answer #8 · answered by B-Diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer the personality, and the body type is immaterial...
2007-02-12 06:47:11 · answer #9 · answered by Forlorn Hope - returned 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hunny,you obviously need to forget about him, not all guys are superficial you just need to meet a different type
2007-02-12 06:48:37 · answer #10 · answered by crazybubbleblower 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋