I like looking at men, I admire their beauty. I am an artist, so I often notice the aesthetic side of men, but I sometimes comment on them as well or compliment them on their physical characteristics. My man doesn't like this, but I tell him that I'm just looking............Do you agree with me?
2007-02-12 06:37:45 · 16 answers · asked by honeygirlc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can see your side of things as well as your boyfriend... husband or whatever he may be. A lot of times I think that people unintentionally take the people in our lives who mean the most to us for granted. Maybe he's feeling like you aren't giving him enough attention or he feels less than adequate when you have time to compliment them and notice them, but just assume he knows how you feel about him. Maybe he's feeling like he's not good enough and just doesn't know how to tell you how he feels. I don't at all think that you are doing anything wrong or intentionally hurting him, but maybe his feelings are just a little hurt and you haven't taken the time to notice it on that level. Good luck sweetie!!
2007-02-12 06:51:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on a few things I suppose.
Ultimately, "lookie but no touchie" is ok. However, if it makes your partner uncomfortable, perhaps you should find another way to communicate with him.
At the same time, you may need to find a way to reassure him that as much as you comment about other men, he's really the only one for you. And you should back this up with WHY he's the only one for you.
Good luck!
2007-02-12 06:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny i do the same thing but to be honest.. How would you feel if he was making comments about the hot chick walking down the street?? You would feel like crap.. do not do it or try to cut it down! I am trying to not do this so when i am about to say "Wow he is Nice" i stop and think it instead...
2007-02-12 06:41:19 · answer #3 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can always just look. You can be completely in love with somebody...but that doesn't change the fact that other people are still attractive. It's best to be honest! My boyfriend and I always comment on other people to each other, its fun.
2007-02-12 06:46:21 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your man doesn't like it you should probably not make those comments in front of him to be sensative to his feelings. Doesn't mean you can't look though.
2007-02-12 06:41:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it looks very bad on ur boyfriend's face when u complimenting another guy's beauty like this. i think u should just keep it to yourself. i don't think u would like it if he was the one doing it to u. how would u feel?
2007-02-12 06:49:43 · answer #6 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree i love looking at people
2007-02-12 06:41:09 · answer #7 · answered by Daniela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a good line to use when I get busted by my girl checking out other females.
Thanks!
2007-02-12 06:42:25 · answer #8 · answered by Right_Tonight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looking and commenting are two different things. Look, but make no sound... LOL
2007-02-12 06:40:01 · answer #9 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my husband and i look at the opposite sexes all the time, but i try to hide mine a little more, but he usually knows. maybe you should try not being so vocal about it. i'm sure this will help his ego!~
2007-02-12 06:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋