i'm interested in this woman. we talked and I found she was married. when i asked her about why wasn't she wearing her ring, she just srugged and really didn't give an answer. So, I walked away thinking she was alreardy in her car, I turned around and she was still looking at me. What does this all mean? Do I have a shot?
2007-02-12 06:24:09 · 22 answers · asked by tedo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
First of all, you shouldn't be trying to get with a married woman. Second, some rings bother women and they just choose not to wear them...just like some men.
2007-02-12 06:38:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she didn't feel comfortable giving you an explanation.
Some people do not wear wedding rings for a variety of reasons. Sometimes it's work related. Sometimes it's a comfort thing. And sometimes it's due to religious reasons. Some feel that even a wedding ring is jewelry & does not permit the wearing of one. Which I disagree with. It would save a lot of trouble, confusion & embarrassment.
My mother was married about 35 years before I mamaged to get Dad to buy her a wedding ring; a very thing white gold band. She loved it & wore it proudly as times had changed since they'd wed.
2007-02-12 06:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want a shot with someone who is married? Since she didn't offer you an explanation for why she wasn't wearing a ring, one can only assume that the marriage is in trouble in some way. Do you really want to get in the middle of that? If you want a "shot" tell her to call you as soon as her divorce is final, then check out other more available women who won't complicate your life.
2007-02-12 06:40:50 · answer #3 · answered by Yo' Mama 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About the only time I've come across a legitimate excuse for not wearing an engagement ring in the 29 years of my life was from a dental hygienist who said "The clasps on the diamond ring rip my latex glove." And that was from my 60 year old mother.
In other words, fella, pack up your bags, and let this dead snake lie.
2007-02-12 06:37:16 · answer #4 · answered by Kilroy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is married - no shot unless she is separated or going through a divorce... no ring could mean either or that she is either not a ring person or a person of indecretions... either way you may have a shot but be aware that your shelf life may be short
2007-02-12 06:34:55 · answer #5 · answered by jessica 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At the very least it means that she is not interested.
I have known widows that still said that they were married because of their belief that marriage is forever. It could be that her job makes it dangerous to wear rings or jewelry. It could be anything.
2007-02-12 06:32:56 · answer #6 · answered by wedding planner tx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either she doesnt believe in rings (yes it does happen) she didnt like you and was trying to get you to leave so she said she was married (sorry, it does happen also) or she is in a fight/ going through a divorce. (Then it might be too soon for her to want to date). You might have a shot, but I would say it is very slim to none. Sorry. Hope this helps.
2007-02-12 06:30:47 · answer #7 · answered by Mo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be many things, matter of preferance, maybe she is going through a divorce and its a sensitive topic for her, maybe she likes flirt and doesnt want a ring to deter people from flirting with her. Who knows.
2007-02-12 06:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by Jessica S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why in the hell do you want a shot with a married woman?????????????? the only thing it means is she is a hoe. Believe me, the reason she is not wearing her ring is b/c she sleeps around on her husband. DUH...dont mess around with a married woman, it all ends up so bad...and someone will get hurt. Probably you.
2007-02-12 06:28:58 · answer #9 · answered by kimberlydj20 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Why do people try to get in relationships with people that are willing to cheat on their partner? That says something about their character, don't you think?
As for why she doesn't wear her ring, I don't know, but it doesn't look good for her husband.
2007-02-12 06:31:36 · answer #10 · answered by Karen? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋