2007-02-12 06:12:20 · 12 answers · asked by Whonosbest 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
I'm sorry I didn't make myself clear. I was wondering as a friend, how could I get my friend to seek some help (treatment)? What do I need to do to help them?
2007-02-12 06:20:04 · update #1
They are suffering intense psychological pain. You have to try to find out what is causing it. Even though you may not understand it. It's usually something that makes them feel hopeless or helpless. Suicide is an extreme cry for help. Don't take it lightly, it's very serious. The suicide ward in our area was so full my stepson had to wait to find an empty room. It's an epidemic and they will eventually succeed if you don't get them help. The suicide hot line is 1-800-784-2433 24 hours, anonymous, calls can't be traced.
2007-02-12 06:24:39 · answer #1 · answered by grdangel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First thing is don't shout at them or say stuff like "how could you be so stupid?" or make them feel guilty about it...chances are they already feel like crap. Firstly, they would need to be seen by a medical professional, a doctor and a phychiatric professional. It could be something like depression causing the suicidal tendancys..which is often caused by a chemical imbalance in the brain and medication could help this person feel a lot better. The real way of dealing with it would be to find out why the person wants to end their life, be there for them, listen and support them (as well as seeking the medical advice)....don't judge them...you don't know what it's like until you have been in that situation! Good luck and best wishes!
also don't force them into seeking help, that strain will only make them feel worse about themselves but reassure them that you will be there for them. However if you fear they will try again (which not to scare you but is often likely) then they probably need help very quickly...and sometimes even though they don't want it, it's in their best interests....you could actua;;y go to your own doctor and ask for advice. there is also many sites about suicide and mental illness online or you could ring the samaritains for friendly advice and help!
2007-02-12 06:18:15 · answer #2 · answered by SH2007 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you are already on the right track - you care.
Express your care and concern for your friend - to your friend.
Offer to get them help - go with them to get help. Get them to the right place to get help.
Let them know that it's okay to need the help. Also let them know that although they may be hurting, that it doesn't have to be that way. Help isn't that far away.
Reach out to the different places they can get help - their doctor, the hospital, crisis lines, family, mental health centers - wherever the person might be willing to go and don't back off!
Ultimately, it is up to the individual to get the help, but you as a friend can assist them along the way.
I have provided you with a couple links.
*The first is from Wikipedia... really long, but good reading.
*The second is a "General Resource" - lots of information and links to great information.
Hope this helps.
2007-02-12 06:34:32 · answer #3 · answered by barbieisthe1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the same way that you always have, you dont want them to feel different because of it. you will end up isolating them even more. it's not an easy thing to deal with and when people draw attention to it or harp on it, that makes things worse. just try to be there for them and care for them as much as you can. don't baby them or walk on egg shells around them because it will make them feel bad. also whatever you do do not make the situation about you. saying "maybe i should have done this or that" they already feel bad enough.
2007-02-12 06:16:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for them. My friend tried to end her life and I just kept treating her the same, with love and compassion. Now she constantly tells me that I saved her life because I was the only normal one.
2007-02-12 06:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by 2littleiggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Treat them like you always did. They still need your friendship and if there is anything they want to discuss or divuldge they will talk to you. Be the same friend you always were and they will appreciate that.
2007-02-12 06:15:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let your friend know that you care SO much about them & that you are there for them & want them to get help so that you can share more times together.
As far as how to get he help: you could go to AA
meetings, ask to speak to a counselor there, they MIGHT
be able to help & best of luck .
2007-02-12 06:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by start 6-22-06 summer time Mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With compassion.. Be caring...
2007-02-12 06:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same way you always treated them.......
2007-02-12 06:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sometimes all it takes is being there. Sensitivity.
2007-02-12 06:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by vanamont7 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋