Okay so heres my situation ive been with my girlfriend for about 18 months and weve had our ups and downs .. shes cought me cheating twice and is still faithful (or so i think) anyway shes attractive ...... but i cant help but wanting to have sex with another woman (badly) not anyone i have in mind but still when were at the store and i see an attractive woman my mind races... i knw im pry a perv but i think its cuz 6 months ago i started working out and now im in the best shape ive ever been and more women hit on me now that im cut... what could i do to avoid cheating on her and having her leave me?
2007-02-12 06:08:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get a sex change lol.
2007-02-12 06:11:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, it's really simple. There's no magic solution for keeping you pants zipped. You just have to do it. If you can't, or more to the point, don't want to, then it's time to leave your girlfreind.
After all, you said she's caught you twice in 18 months. How many times didn't she catch you? If this relationship isn't important enough for you to remain faithful, than it's time to move on.
2007-02-12 14:16:15 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing is, you shouldn't be with a girl at all...sorry to tell you. If you know that you aren't the type of guy to be ready to committed you should just talk to her about it, and tell her that she needs to move on, You are only doing her more harm by staying with her while wanting to have sex with other women. You haven't found "the girl" that you want to get serious with obviously. If you really loved your gf, she would be the only one you need, but it seems like you need from alot of other women. You should just stay single until you find one girl that you are satisfied with, because it seems like you like to experience. Being with someone, and hurting them constantly is not a healthy relationship at all.
2007-02-12 14:19:26 · answer #3 · answered by Saphire04 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The reason why she's staying with you is because she's cheating on you too.
Sounds like you guys deserve each other.
If you want to sleep around, then just break up with her. Enjoy yourself without the guilt.
2007-02-12 14:13:45 · answer #4 · answered by FERNANDO 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You keep your pants on. Plain and simple. Quit making excuses for yourself, it comes across as childish. If you have that little self control do her a favor and leave.
2007-02-12 14:15:33 · answer #5 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her so much then you wont cheat on her thats just it.....its all in the head its called you need "SELF CONTRL"!!! Think about it when your out cheating on her your risking losing her and I think if you want to sleep around then you dont need a girlfriend!!
2007-02-12 14:15:43 · answer #6 · answered by sxycountrygirl19 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you have any respect or true feelings for her you will tell her what you have done and let her go. obviously she deserves better. she deserves a real man that will treat her right.
2007-02-12 14:31:22 · answer #7 · answered by princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you need to tell her the truth and break it off with her.....go have your fun and when you are ready to be with one person start from scratch.
2007-02-12 14:11:53 · answer #8 · answered by abc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just control yourself dude. It isn't thah difficult.
2007-02-12 14:14:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
spice up the sex life... try roll playing or other fun games... something that will keep your attention on her
2007-02-12 14:12:19 · answer #10 · answered by B-Diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋