My boyfriend wants me to talk dirty to him, but I don't know what to say?

Question

I just feel really silly, like I can't take it seriously when I say something like that. It's completely out of my character to say naughty things in bed.

What do I say?

And he also wants me to bite and scratch him, but I don't know where. (I know he likes his ears and lips to be nibbled).

Where do I bite?

Answer 1

if your not comfy then dont bother cuz you wont be hott doing it and it will hurt his fantasy

Answer 2

Rather than trying for some fake raunch, talk about what you want him to do to you. Where do you want to feel him? What are you going to do to him? You don't need to swear, just let him know that you want him in a sweaty, vulgar fashion.

For scratching and biting--this may seem a little weird, but pain is really a sensation combined with fear. Since he doesn't fear you, a scratch or bite just provides a little intensity, a little sensation, different from and on top of everything else. Wait until he looks like he can't take any more, then slowly but firmly bite him--on the breast, ear, bicep, it doesn't really matter. (This is more of a pinch with your teeth than tearing off a bit of steak.) And when you scratch, don't make a cat scratch, make it feel like you are trying to put your fingers under his skin--get closer in an intense way. Remember that you are trying for intense sensation, not lingering pain or blood all over the sheets.

Just let yourself be in the moment--don't think too much about what he'll think, do something and figure out whether he likes it later so you see if you want to repeat it. C'mon, this is what women have every guy do--figure out what turns them on--just give it a little try and you'll get it in no time.

Answer 3

Say things of how or what you like when you both have sex or make love. Tell him how sexy and what part of him you like the most. His eyes,smile,hair,arms,body the whole thing. If you ever fantasize about him,tell him your fantasies.
The biting and scratching part. You should try biting the area of his neck down to giving him gentle kisses down to his chest and give him some bites there but gentle ones. Scratching the back of his back also gently is good. I'll give you this, a message on the butt is pleasurable for a man. Good luck!

Answer 4

Don't start off trying to be like a porn star here. Instead just start by saying what pops into your head when you are making love to him. Such as he feels good, you like his body as it rubs yours etc. etc. Start simply and as you start vocalizing these things, it will get easier for you to be more inventive.

A lot of men have sensitive necks. (Women do too, by the way). Gently nibbling and softly biting your way from his ear lob to his collar bone can be highly provocative for a guy. Men are also senstive in their nipples and soft bites there can be pleasurable for many.

Start off slowly, with what you are comfortable with. Set aside a time to just explore each other's body. Show him what you want to do, and ask him if he likes it. Also, ask him what he would like you to do and where. Open communication about these types of things is key to any relationship. You need to be able to voice your wants and concerns. That's the only way both your needs will be met and you'll both have an ecstatic and loving intimate life.

Answer 5

ok first of all, if you dont feel comfortable say those kinds of things you dont have to. tell your boyfriend that you dont feel comfortable doing it and hopefully he will understand. after time you should become comfortable with it, if not..its a choice.
if your boyfriend wants you to scratch or bite him, its probably becuase it turns him on. depending on the amount of time you have been with your boyfriend, you should know where those certain spots are, like as you said his ears and lips. for most men the neck is also a big hit. as for scratching, his lower stomach and back are always good...but not too hard..

hope this helps

Answer 6

Start of slow, just like anything else with sex. Tell him what feels good. Just try to go with the moment, use words like baby, sexy, lots of ooohs and ahhhhs. Just remember that anything you say is good. You can even start out with heavy breathng, that's hot. You can use that too, it's hot. As far as the biting and scratiching goes, start with the back and let him tell you if it's too much. communicatin is everything in the sack, and if you two really care for eachother, it' won't be weird. One more thing....practice practice practice. Good Luck!!!

Answer 7

Bite where you know he likes it and don't forget the shoulders. And tell him to start the dirty talk and go from there. Believe me once you get into it and you see he is enjoying it, you won't be so embarrassed.

Answer 8

scratch his back and bite his neck and if you bite him hard enough he may not want so much, but you might find that when you start doing these things you may get into it and it will just come to you(have fun)

Answer 9

when it comes to talking dirty, guys just want to hear what you want to do to them, or what you want them to do to you... ask them if they like what you are doing or ask them if they like what they are touching... they go crazy for that. when it comes to biting and such the neck, chest legs are the best... and i don't know any guy that doesn't like nails run down his butt during sex. also if you run your nails down the inner thighs while giving a BJ they will go thru the roof! good luck!

Answer 10

how about this "Laundry, sweaty socks, kitchen floor, carpeting, " At least those are things that get dirty around my home. *snicker