how would you react if your gf told you she were bisexual and that she wanted to get a gf?
2007-02-12 06:00:26 · 24 answers · asked by yoshi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
As most people are saying 3some I would have to say no. bringing someone in to a relationship will only cause discomfort and jealousy. If she wants a GF you are better to just let her have one and not be with her.
2007-02-12 06:05:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you been dating her? If it's been some time and she just now brought this up, I would say that she was less than honest with you. In that case, break off the relationship.
But if she is a new gf and she's telling you she wants an open sexual relationship, you have to decide how you feel about that. If she wants to be intimate with other people, that means you can be too. But the chances for disease increase exponentially. So beware.
2007-02-12 06:04:22 · answer #2 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being there. She thought she would like to try, but didn’t work. She realized she was just curious, and probably wanted to have some adventures. In reality, it is hard to find another girl that would be ok with having a relation with another woman that is engaged to a man.
It works to have some fun. Could be a pure lesbian fun (where the guy is not involved), or bisexual (a threesome). Or even a foursome if it happens you are lucky enough to find another couple where the girl wants the same. But that is where it ends.
She is now my wife, and she says she is happy she didn’t get to find anybody, as her love for me is not something she would like to share :)
Of course, as a guy, I would have loved to have some fun with another girl and her, but I know she is right. And for women is harder to separate love and sex, not like us guys who have different ideas of each (in most cases). And I am not going to push her to do something she doesn’t want to anymore.
I think she also wanted to please me as she knows I like the idea of a threesome. But I’m more than happy with her, and would never trade our relation, not even risk it for some extra fun. No way.
Make sure she understands what she wants, and make sure she also understands what you think about it and what you want to do. Movies are one thing, but what happens in Hollywood is not what happens in real life. Be careful.
2007-02-12 06:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by Dan D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her for a 3 some
2007-02-12 06:02:37 · answer #4 · answered by jojonjesse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd be stoked and ask her what else she was willing to do. Isn't that just about every guys fantasy. Don't be a pu$$y get in there and make some good of this situation.
2007-02-12 06:05:06 · answer #5 · answered by badmitton69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um I am a girl, so if I were a guy and my gf said that it would depend on my morals, and whether or not I was willing to share. As a woman with a man I wouldn't share.....EVER
2007-02-12 06:03:39 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Sparkling♥Jules♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I say, if you are in a seriouse relationship, that would be cheating, so it would be a no go. If this relationship is not so seriouse, no future, then do what you want....But it doesn't matter if its with a girl or a boy, its cheating. So, I would say, "get your bag and go find one"
2007-02-12 06:04:16 · answer #7 · answered by Ms Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her what was she looking for, in a girlfriend? And help her with advice if I could. I'm not homophobic.
2007-02-12 06:04:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i world say that i wanted the newest ipod accesory called the i snore!
Then i would take out my pulse rifle and chase her around the nuclear reactor in our house
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2007-02-12 06:03:28 · answer #9 · answered by toothymarine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are extremely hetero so you need another gf exept from her...
2007-02-12 06:08:04 · answer #10 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋