We broke up almost a year ago and when we broke up I told him to please not contact me again...because it would be too hard on me to keep talking to him. But a couple of months ago he started texting me and e-mailing me to the point that he finally asked to see me. I didnt want to because I still love him and it hurts to just have him as a friend. Well yesterday I finally agreed to talk to him because he kept insisting. He kept saying that he regreted breaking up with me and he couldnt stop thinking of how it would have been. Then he said that he would like to start off as friends again! And then see what happens after that! What does this mean? I told him to get the hell out of my car! But it hurts so bad! What is he doing this for? Does he want to be with me or what?
2007-02-12 06:00:13 · 16 answers · asked by hottone 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if its been a year then most likley its no game. he probably does really like you, i went through the same thing. i dated a girl for a year then we broke up for a year. at that point in our lives we just weren't right for each other. but i dated a few girls and realized what i had and what i wanted and we got back together and it was the best thing that ever happened to me.
and obviously you love him, if you can't get over him in a year then theres more there than just some feelings.
2007-02-12 06:25:28 · answer #1 · answered by BBC 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to make up for whatever it is that he did. If you don't want a person in your life, don't answer the phone or agree to see them. You're inviting trouble in and I know you don't want that. He could've harmed or done worse to you. I have now and have had three separate restraining order on three different men. I would never answer the phone or see them no matter what they said. They could have a pot of gold at the end of a rainbow and I still wouldn't come. Leave this guy alone and go on with your life. I really don't want to hear about yet another girl getting killed or put in the hospital because their estranged boyfriend tried to take their heads off. If you don't invite trouble in, it'll stop knocking at your door.
2007-02-12 06:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a booty call.
He had a girl - or girls - for the last few months but when his well ran dry he went back to you thinking that you would be easy for him.
Just ignore him and stop taking his calls and texts.
Remind him that he made a big mistake a long time ago and you've moved on.
He only wants one thing and is manipulating you.
2007-02-12 06:04:57 · answer #3 · answered by FERNANDO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could mean he doesn't have any prospects at the moment and he feels he can use your emotions to accept him back or he really does regret leaving you after he has seen it was a mistake. Only you know how it was before he left you and why he left you. Love with your heart but don't forget the brain,,its pretty smart.
2007-02-12 06:13:47 · answer #4 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has said what he wants-that he would like to start off as friends again! And then see what happens after that.
Question is what do you want?
2007-02-12 06:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by pretty face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur first mistake was answering him back when he called or txted. but u were right to tell him to get out. just move on and find someone else or immerse urself into hobbies and things u like to do. dont go back. u broke up for a reason and most likely he did it all and will do it again given the chance.
2007-02-12 06:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by jenivive 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-03 06:20:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to read the book "It's called a break up because it's broken". There is a reason you cut him out of your life completely, and you need to remember those reasons. I am of the mind-set that once it's over, it's over, you don't go back.
2007-02-12 06:04:54 · answer #8 · answered by Meadow Soprano 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you still love him, maybe you should give it another shot. That may mean getting hurt all over again, or it could mean getting back together.
2007-02-12 06:05:20 · answer #9 · answered by Hey you! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it means he wants to give it another shot...like real soon.....but who broke up with who??? if you are the one who did the dumping in the past you have no right saying for him not to talk to you anymore bc it will "be too hard on you"...but if he s the one who dumped you in the past maybe hes sorry and hes willin to give it another shot....by the way it sounds you loved him a lot...so why wouldnt you take a chance in gettin back together wi th him???
2007-02-12 06:05:18 · answer #10 · answered by ~Ohio State~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋