why is it that when i like a guy and like they are all nice but when we hook up they are all mean?

Question

when i hook up with a guy the are rude and they seem like they dont care about me and they pretty much ignore me this has happened like 10 times.....

Answer 1

are you the kinda girl who makes the first move or something. coz that's just not done. then obviously the guy is not gonna respect you -if he did not try hard for you in the first place.let the guys first make their move and chase you.you just chill- be yourself .put on that cool attitude and take it easy.
you re worth it. so let a nice guy (who is there for you) flirt with you,follow you and run after you. only then start dating him.
--remember boys are born to run after girls.

Answer 2

Some guys fake love to get sex, and unfortunately some girls think that if they give sex, they will get love, but that doesn't usually happen as you have seen. Why not raise the standard. You might get a few less dates, but the ones you get will be of some quality and you won't have to pick up the pieces of your self-esteem afterward.

Answer 3

it means that youre hooking up with the wrong guys. and for one, if you want a guy to like you, you shouldnt just hook up with them. a good guy isnt necessarily one for just hookups, hes one whos good with a relationship.

it sounds like you should go more for the relationship kind of guy, even if you like hookups more, you want the kind of attention and respect that you deserve, and can much more easily get from a relationship.

Answer 4

It is because thy got what thy wanted now it's time to move to the next woman. Men still want a woman that holds out.

Answer 5

sorry, but nice guys finish last. im one and never was treated ver well in the past