there is this girl or woman I should say that I want to go out/date with..I know she likes me because she told me so, we even had a make out sesion once or twice, but since than we put it on a slow burner since she is coming off of a divorce and I'm recently out of a long term relation ship
few months ago she told me she is not ready for relation ship thats why we are taking it slow...I have no problem with that
what can I say in a valantines message that wont be to forward and make her feel uncomfortable if she is not ready
right now we are good friends and hang out often but i would like to be more than that and I think she does to but she is very shy and in touch with her emotions
I want the message to be as friend to friend but with a hidden message if you know what I mean
ladies please let me know what would you like to see in a message if that was you?
some already suggested poem or to tell her that someone special might be closer than she thinks but I need something less pushy
2007-02-12 05:57:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
this day i wish you as much love as you are ready to accept.
happy v's.
2007-02-12 06:04:44 · answer #1 · answered by saxa 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don,t tell her there is some one else that sure would push her away . go a head give her some flowers for valantines .if it was me i would like the message to say i care for you deeply and i love you and i,m willing to wait has long has you want and untill you are ready . i well all ways be here when you need me . then sign love your nam(this part is for you ) your right don,t push her but nothing wrong with you telling her if you care for her you well waite for her and be under standing right now this is what she needs .you do this most likely she well see how much you reallycare for her she just needs a close friend and she wants you to be that person if you think you can handel just being her friend for right now. i can,t tell you if you to are going to end up together but this well be a good start . don,t you think any way good luck to both of you HAPPY VALANTINES DAY
2007-02-12 14:46:56 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think a nice card with yellow roses. Yellow is for friendship and the card can be romantic without pushing the envelope. Try making a joke out of it or saying "I didn't know what to do so I wanted to let you know that no matter what happens in our futures, I'll always love you as a friend."
2007-02-12 14:02:24 · answer #3 · answered by mel m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally would like to know that the guy friend is there for me whenever I need someone to laugh with cry with or just hang out with. Ther thought of knowing you have someone like that there for you is very comforting to many. As long as you are there for her when she needs someone she will finally soften to the idea of having you around all the time. This has happened to me personally and I have always been a cautious one when it comes to my personal life. I am now married and awaiting the bert of our first child. Good luck!
2007-02-12 14:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by blonde_chick1284 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her how much you think she is a sweet girl and how great she is and so on. DO not say anything about a relastionship. Tell her you value her in many ways. And then valentines night have a great make out session.. LOL she will get the point
2007-02-12 14:03:39 · answer #5 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hidden messages are dumb.
Be a man and ask her out on a date.
But you already did ask her out and she rejected you.
Just stay friends with her. If she wanted to date you after making out with you she would have told you.
She's just not that into you.
2007-02-12 14:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by FERNANDO 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
say something like "' i know u going through some rough moments right now, but i just want to say that I'm here for u any time u want a shoulder to lean on and besides good things happen to those who wait". happy valentine my dear friend.
2007-02-12 14:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its really easy to find a song that matches with what you want to say, and its really sweet youd take the time to look for one. Or tell her how you really feel in a card with a dozen PINK roses, pink is the code for i really like you, red is love.
2007-02-12 14:05:58 · answer #8 · answered by Kimberlyan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Mary,
I just wanted to let you know that I appreciate your companionship. I hope that you will remember me in the future.
Warmly,
Bartacules
2007-02-12 14:16:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont do any stupid thing like hidden messages.....
give her some time to think.....
dont try to manipulate her thinking...
if she like u she ll definately give ur go signal...
2007-02-12 14:06:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋