2007-02-12 05:31:32 · 8 answers · asked by Randy J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm 19 and my current girlfriend is 16. younger can be good because they can attach to you quickly and stay with you for a long time. the bad thing is that they are immature and don't understand many of the things that you do, since they haven't experienced them yet. sooo, i would say, go for it.
2007-02-12 05:36:39 · answer #1 · answered by holymonx 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The advantage and disadvantage is the maturity level and what she wants out of life at the moment. Dating a college girl can be an amazing experience--she's going to lead you to try new things, you won't be bored, she doesn't have wrinkles where she smiles, and will be up for anything. On the other hand, if you are looking to have someone move in with you, live together for a few months, have you propose marriage, and start a family, the college girl is not for you (even if she says she wants those same things).
Even if it weren't illegal, I wouldn't recommend anyone younger than 18 to anyone pushing (or past) 30. Even if you found the brightest, most socially together high schooler, there will be problems if you get serious--she really hasn't known any men but you (maybe some boys, maybe some aholes, but no men). Even if she never decides that she needs to see what else is out there, she'll always wonder what she gave up for you.
I ignore age to a large degree in dating--usually I try for someone in the 24-28 range, but I've known some great women (some too good for me, unfortunately) who are younger or older than that. I worry a little about dating women over 32, because of the opposite problem of the college girls--its tough to have a normal, fun relationship and see where it leads, because they are trying so hard to get married!
Basically, you need to find a woman who's life is at a stage and going in a direction yours is, so you can be on that journey together. Find someone at a different point in their life, and the relationship will be less than perfect, at least until one of you grows up a little.
2007-02-12 05:44:40 · answer #2 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are no real advantages and disadvantages that are broad and generalized enough to make regarding a female's age. Every woman is different and they are all going to make this obvious to you some time during your course of interaction with any female you interact with. Regardless of age a girl can cover a whole spectrum of stereotypes and each of these will have their own set of issues and perks. You just gotta quit being so narrow minded to classify a person using such obvious characteristics.
2007-02-12 05:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok being a girl and having dated an older guy i would have to say:
1)guy would pay when we went out
2) buy me thoughtful gifts
3) didnt play games with my head
4) wasnt insecure about my friends
5) knew alot in the sack - oh wait that is a win win !!!
i would say a 30- 35 year old male shouldnt date someone under 20 (at least no more than 10 years difference.)
2007-02-12 05:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ensue to be older than my boyfriend, no longer by means of a lot basically a pair of years. the downside may well be that he's not over 21 so we are able to circulate to pool halls and characteristic some drinks or circulate to vegas and gamble away the nighttime. the reward for me is living a lifestyles that I in no way had. a extra recent way of being spontaneous and adventurous. i would not date all of us extra advantageous than 4yrs. youthful than me.
2016-12-17 14:56:52 · answer #5 · answered by condon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good question. I don,t know , But it happens.Could some of them tire of young? Is tight skin,young face,get to the real whatever and give it all I am totally addicted to move The White Palace, WOW certainly a dream for me, It happened to me several times of course this never lasts.Brings me back to life with more of my hidden desire. I take it and enjoy it while i can.. yes i am older than a lot of question and ans.by the questions ask and visa versa.
2007-02-12 05:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are NO ADVANTAGES to dating younger women. They are all DISADVANTAGES AND TROUBLE.
2007-02-12 05:51:06 · answer #7 · answered by Monty L 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
how old are you?
2007-02-12 05:35:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋