I need help!! My boyfriend has moved from a foreign country - his home - to be with me. We are on our 7th month and are head over heels for eachother since we met last July when I was on a family holiday. He has his own place and a job, but on days off we never seem to do much as I live in such a quiet place. He has once said he would rather be in work. He is so used to being out all of the time with his friends back home.Any ideas of how to make him happy as Im worried he will get too bored and decide to go home :-(
2007-02-12 05:29:37 · 23 answers · asked by Cherry Girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need activities. Find some activities you like doing together. Maybe biking, hiking, walking, clubbing, etc. Perhaps joining some clubs might bring some additional friends your way. From toastmasters to car clubs, there might be something that interests the both of you that will get you engaged with activity, not boredom. What about taking some fun classes together. My wife and I took ceramics last semester at our local college. Quite a fun class. There are plenty of art type stores that hold workshops for novices. Try some of those. Get some penpals. Maybe you could adopt a soldier. Regardless of how you feel about the war, a penpal or group of penpals that you and your boyfriend have together might be cool. What about traveling? I'll bet you have never thought about what might be within 200 miles or less of where you live. Surely, there's something interesting there.
Just some ideas, hope that helps.
2007-02-12 05:32:02 · answer #1 · answered by Thegustaffa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you live within driving distance of a larger city where there are museums or concerts? Try a weekend road trip. Get out of your quiet little place. Take the Greyhound bus if driving is a problem. It always helps to change your surroundings for a while and do something different. As for boredom, my theory is that only boring people get bored.
2007-02-12 05:33:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Take him to do something fun like playing paintball, golfing, go to a concert, ride horses. Just be creative and think of things that you have the oppurtunity and ability to do and occupy your free time with some activity.
2007-02-12 05:35:21 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to include him in your life a bit more. by this i mean doing things like meeting your friends and their boyfriends for group dinner dates or whatever, taking him round to family dinners just do he would begin to feel as part of your life and also that way, he can start to make new friends. do things with him that he would not normally do back home and this should be thinge you enjoy doing and things you theink he would too. good luck
2007-02-12 07:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do some vision work.
Ask him where he sees himself in 10 years, 5 years, 1 year etc...
Then actually listen to him...
Within this conversation, you can catch some jewels of what he wants in life and what his interests truly are. From here you can gain inspiration to pick activities that tap into who he is and thus he can have fun thanks to your brilliance.
Hopefully, he can reciprocate the desire to make you happy.
2007-02-12 05:34:38 · answer #5 · answered by warequalspeace 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go online and see what kinds of things you can do in your area. and each day, pick a new thing for you guys to do with each other. also, you could watch movies, or just have sex. or call your friends and see what they are doing and hang out with them, like at a club or something.
2007-02-12 05:33:24 · answer #6 · answered by holymonx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go on an adventure. Go exploring. Get alone with him and wrestle or somthing. Try to enjoy the routine but also do exciting adventures now and then.
2016-05-24 01:17:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key to every good relationship, you need to talk to him and ask him what he would like to do or what would make him happy. Remember it not all about him either, do things with him that you like to do also.
2007-02-12 05:36:22 · answer #8 · answered by badma'amajama 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well how about doing things together like ice skating, the pictures, going out drinking doing things as a couple maybe then he wont be so bored. good luck
2007-02-12 05:35:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the house and find some activities be it clubs movies hanging out with your friends.Just do something
2007-02-12 05:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by pretty face 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋