And they always say i cant belieave you don't have bf. And i'm 16. And i've never had a bf. I'm short. I'm not miss skinny. But i'm not miss faty. so......what's wrong? i sometimes feel like that love is never gonna find me.=[[ i have mostly guy friends but i've never been out with any of them. And people always tell me how pretty i am. I need help!!! guys and girls!!! please!!! thanks you so much!
2007-02-12 05:28:30 · 14 answers · asked by Katelyn J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was the same way when I was your age. Everyone always told me how beautiful I was, but I never felt that way. I had very little confidence when I was in high school. Learn to love yourself, no matter what, and everything else will fall into place. And remember, never lower your standards just so you can say you have a boyfriend...you always deserve the best. It will happen just give it time :)
2007-02-12 06:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by southernbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww! I was the same way when I was 16! Dont sweat it.... REALLY! I had my first boyfriend and kiss when I was 18! Everywhere I go people tell me Im soo pretty.. I dont see it but they do. Have fun being young! Because it starts going by fast... Look at me Im 21 and talking like Im 50... lol But really! Look just keep doing what your doing.. And dont become a skank to get guys to look at you... because that only works for sex. And sex is not good unless you have truely in love... I mean really in love.
RIght now all the boys are stupid and stuff... Just wait untill they get all there stupid out of their heads. The longer you wait for something the better it will be.
Take care =)
2007-02-12 05:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say most of your friends are guys. That might be the problem. Its great when guys and girls are friends but, sometimes you become so close that its weird to even think of going out with someone that is like a brother or sister. There has to be a sex appeal that will draw two people together. When you become really good friends with these guys they think of you as as sister or soomeone they couldn't imagine being with as a girlfriend. You should try hanging out with your girl friends more and let them introduce you to guys that will think of you more as a girlfriend rather than a sister.
2007-02-12 05:36:06 · answer #3 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only 16. Love will come soon and unexpected. Don't go chasing after it. Focus on the positive things you can do, not the negative things you don't have. A person who focuses on the positive is more attractive. Find security in deeper things like your relationship with God.
2007-02-12 05:58:52 · answer #4 · answered by wassupmang 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should know by just watching all your friends, that boys are not interested in just your looks. You can be the most beautiful girl in the world, they are only concerned about one thing. If you are easy or not. Take this time to observe what's going on around you. Boys don't grow out of their "too horney to think" stage until their early twenties. It's not you, it's them. Thank you and good luck.
2007-02-12 05:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it sounds like we have alot in common or at least with our ody types i have a bf now though and hes great i think our problem is that we dont see ourselfs as cute, pretty..... or anything like that thanks to hollywood all you see there are tall skinny people that look perfect so just see your self as being who you are and like you for that and soon you wont be able to get the guys to leave you alone i understand how you feel and i wish i could grow taller but neither of us are so we just have to get used to it and besides have you thought of asking a guy out that you like it doesnt always have to be a guy to ask you good luck and i hope i have helped some at least now you shouldnt feel so alone
2007-02-12 05:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
join your church youth group, volunteer to tutor, learn to knit, start a book club with your friends, challenge your dad to a basketball game, offer to cook dinner tonight, lay down under the trees and watch the clouds move!
Your have plenty of time for the drama of boys. Now is the time to be a young girl and enjoy your life.
2007-02-12 05:34:46 · answer #7 · answered by Libby 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, from my experience, your looks have nothing to do with finding a boyfriend. It's about your personality and how high your standards are. If you are outgoing and have low standards, then you probably can find boyfriends easier. So you haven't met the right one yet. You are very young still.
2007-02-12 05:32:44 · answer #8 · answered by Atousa 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm beautiful, but crazy, and that scares a lot of people. Maybe you should focus not on your looks, but your attitude. See if there are things that you can change to make yourself pretty from within.
2007-02-12 05:35:22 · answer #9 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are just 16 and i mean so what if you dont have a boyfriend whats the rush? i mean we all need to just take our time and stop being boy obessed
<3 another girl who knows how ya feel
2007-02-12 05:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋