How do I convert to Orthodox Judaism?

Question

And at what point of the conversion process are you expected to keep the Sabbath?

Answer 1

They really will not convert you until they see that you are observant. I'd start observing some of the most obvious mitzvot before you even approach a rabbi, like observing the Shabbat and avioding non-Kosher foods. They will be more comfortable if you are already making an effort. Your local rabinical councel will likely set you up at that point with an oberservant family for you to spent Shabbat with and learn the finer points of observance.

Answer 2

You should try to become shomer Shabbos - completely observant of the Sabbath - immediately. This means no turning the lights on or off, no cooking, no driving, no cell phones on Shabbos. For a more in-depth explanation of the finer points of being shomer Shabbos, talk to a local rabbi.

You might want to go to www.chabad.org and look for the nearest Chabad house. I'm not a Chabadnik myself, but Chabad is a good all-around resource for anyone interested in orthodox Judaism. Read the Torah. Attend services. Learn Jewish tradition. Develop a relationship with a rabbi.

If you aren't already Jewish, do not expect a warm welcome to the fold if you approach an orthodox rabbi and tell him that you want to become an orthodox Jew. An orthodox rabbi will probably turn you down several times. Be prepared to offer a sincere explanation as to why you want to become a Jew and do not be surprised if you are still turned away. You may want to look into converting to Judaism through the reform or conservative movements - do your reading and decide which movement is best for you. There are very real theological differences between all of them, and if you find that you would be more suited to the conservative community than the orthodox, convert to conservative Judaism.

Answer 3

The most direct answer would be to talk to an Orthodox rabbi. Undoubtedly, he will ask you a myriad of questions as to your reasoning behind wanting to convert. There are two reasons for this:

First, to make sure you understand exactly what you're getting yourself into! Becoming a ger (convert) is not easy. There is LOTS of study involved (continually, even after conversion) and also observance requirements that must be followed. He will want to make sure you can/will follow the rules, so to speak.

Secondly, Judaism takes conversion VERY seriously. You can look at it as a sort of interview. His main thought is of the preservance of the Jewish people and the Torah. If he feels you will make a good addition, he will most likely have you join in a "Stepping Stones" course, where you will begin your studies. Once you have converted, in most sects, it is said that a ger is set higher than a born Jew, as the person became one through choice. To fully understand the undertaking and to make that choice, is a great thing. Do not be discouraged if he refuses you initially. Quite a few rabbis will do this. Some see it as "pushing away with one hand and pulling in with the other" This is a way of him knowing if you are serious about converting. If you go to him honestly and persevere, he will see this and accept you.

Good luck and get ready to be taken to shul. :)

Answer 4

i converted reform, don't know if it's true for ortho., but most people get involved with a congregation and start observing rituals, including the sabbath. i was already observing the sabbath and had participated in 3 or 4 other holidays before i started to go through the conversion process which included study (about a year), a beit din (being questioned formally by a rabbi and leaders of the community), and a mikvah (ritual bath).

torah.org and ritualwell.com both have good links for people interested in conversion.

if possible, find a rabbi in your area who is willing to talk to you.

good books are Choosing a Jewish Life and To be a Jew, both are pretty easy to find - good luck on your journey.

Answer 5

Contact a rabbi is your first course of action. The rabbi will send you away several times. You will study Judaism for at least a year, and at the end, you'll be tested. If you pass, then you can convert.
Converting Orthodox is the best because you'll be universally accepted.

Answer 6

well, the first thing you need to realize is that you have to apply through a local Orthodox shul/synagogue first. Your application will be sent for review and rejected at least three times.. you'll have to study and celebrate the Shabbos (Sabbath) and the Festivals of Israel for at least a year.. then you will go before the Beit Din (house of judges) who will then ask you questions and if you pass, you'll then go for a mikveh (spiritual cleansing.. similar but very different from baptism).. again, please contact your local orthodox rabbi if you are actually interested in doing this.

Answer 7

George Costanza had this very problem, so calling him and asking him would be a good first step. I think he had to do some studying and pass a test.