If he looks at other girls but tells me that he is just looking.
I feel like if he's looking he would want to be with the girl he's looking at. I mean I look good what does he need to look at other girls for pleases help me to understand who do you think is right me or him.
2007-02-12 05:21:45 · 14 answers · asked by bluemami06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
men look, that's just the way it is.
2007-02-12 05:25:19 · answer #1 · answered by wayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a second nature for a guy to look at attractive women. I've been with my husband for 7 years and to this day, he will glance over to see a cute girl. Don't be mad... if you love and trust him rest assured it's just him doing a "guy thing"... after all, you are the one next to him. Besides, I've found there's quite a few handsome guys out there too... its just nature... if something is pretty, people look at it. Don't let this get under your skin. Make a game out of it... comment the girl's skirt or purse... let him know you know what he's doing, but don't get mad. Men love a confident woman...
Good luck!
2007-02-12 13:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by just curious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk about it. Tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable or insecure, and that you would appreciate it if he had a little more respect for you when you are out in public. That way, he will keep his eyes more on you and if he does look, you should tell him how much this upsets you. I hate this excuse, but, lets face it, men will be men, and for some, theres nothing we can change about it. Lets just hope he listens to you and tries to work at it.
2007-02-12 13:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by Breesy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What good does being mad do if he keeps looking at other girls and making you feel bad? If he can't control where he allows his eyes to go, find a more mature guy.
2007-02-12 13:29:34 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont blame you for being mad but thats how guys are. i'm pretty sure other guys have looked at you when you were together. all i have to say is, at least he comes back to you at the end of the day. Stop being so paranoid though, it will only make things worst and raise up trust issues.
Good luck
2007-02-12 13:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither of you are wrong...
Tell him he can look just not when he is around you... because it bothers you...
and also you can not yell at him if he does slip up and take a look and get caught... (as long as it isn't all the time).
personally just because I guy looks doesn't mean he isn't interested in you.
Trust me if a guy stops looking you should be worried... check his pulse...
So think about it this way... when he looks he does want to "be" with them... but he chooses to control himself and to only be with you... because you are special...
Hope that helps...
2007-02-12 13:29:00 · answer #6 · answered by AvidBeerDrinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good god woman are you gonna make him walk round with blinkers on hes only looking like all the other men in the world do do u not look at other men? do you want to be with them ? if the answer is no for you why would it be different for him x x
2007-02-12 13:34:50 · answer #7 · answered by andrea.barrett36 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is ok for a man to look as long as he does'nt touch. Someone always look better than someone else. Hell Eric Bennet had Hallie Berry and he still looked and did more than that.
2007-02-12 13:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by meme32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, he can look...as long as that "looking" is not going somewhere else. If you make him feel that you are over him, telling him that he always has to look at you, maybe he will feel that is that you are too imposing
2007-02-12 13:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by Shalom R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have every right to be mad......i mean i know guys look at other girls when they are dating but they shouldnt be doing that when you are with them and then tell u that he is "just looking". thats wrong.
2007-02-12 13:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GUYS ARE GOING TO LOOK THEY CAN'T HELP IT. YOU CAN GET MAD, BUT HE WILL NOT CHANGE HIS WAYS. IF YOU DON'T LIKE IT YOU MIGHT HAVE TO END THE RELATIONSHIP AND TRY TO FIND SOMEONE WHO ONLY HAS EYES FOR YOU.
2007-02-12 13:31:10 · answer #11 · answered by DAVIDSGIRL2923 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋