For the past month I have been trying to reconcile a relationship that lasted for a little bit over a year. We took a break and I am afraid that makes us more distant from each other. We talk all the time and email each other. Last week we hanged out together for the first time in a month. Can anyone tell me what is the best approach for the reconciliation. I wish thing were like they were before but I think I am rushing into things. Don’t know what to do. I
2007-02-12 05:15:40 · 8 answers · asked by Decoder333 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do not ask us.
ask the person who you want the relationship with.
you just need to tell her/him how you feel and what you want and expect. If he/she agrees, you have a chance that your lives can
co-exist. if she/he does not want to move forward.
it is also wonderful, because why would you even want to be with someone who does not think you are the most wonderful person in the world. you win either way. good luck
2007-02-12 05:25:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-05 19:20:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely, things won't ever be the way they were. There is a reason that you two decided to "take a break". Whatever that reason was.....it probably still exsists. Maybe you should accept the friendship that you two still have and let the relationship side of it go. Take things one day at a time, and maybe things will be close to what they once were, but I highly doubt that it will ever be the same. I don't think I have ever known a relationship to be the same after a break up.
2007-02-12 05:22:17 · answer #3 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to your "partner" about this. Explain your feelings and concerns. Ask where she is wanting to go with the relationship. Be prepared to let it all out. This way you both can be on the same page here. Tell her exactly what you want.. and listen to what she has to say... this way you know if she is ready for a serious relationship, or just a good friendship. You will know how to handle things, and won't be building up feelings that aren't "welcomed" by her. Don't get your heart broken... but you have to give it a shot and let her know how you feel.
Good luck!
2007-02-12 05:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by just curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it time to play out on its own.Forcing it could mean breaking it.
2007-02-12 05:23:13 · answer #5 · answered by pretty face 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are "starting fresh" I would say that things should work themselves out. If not... it's just not meant to be.
2007-02-12 05:19:26 · answer #6 · answered by E 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave it alone, back off and give it time.
2007-02-12 05:20:40 · answer #7 · answered by gloried 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take it slow
2007-02-12 05:23:20 · answer #8 · answered by winnerfull-1 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋