Please help me!!?

Question

iam in a college...where most of the ppl come from the middle class..
i have class mates..who belong from the same category..by seeing my hi qualitied dresses and things that i wear, they get jealous and as it is known women get jealous quickly...
i hate the way they speak to me...they take me for granted...every sentence of that gal consist of one or other slang...and iam forcibly made to listen to that since i sit with her during class hours...
she is hopeless...she teases me with boys' names...sometimes hit me hard...always say that iam fat since she is very slim..not only that...her acts are very unloyal and vulgar...she does things like touching and kissing not with me but with other gals...
i was quite till now, dint say even a word since i considered her my friend...but i dint get anything in turn, tell me what to do??...i have made up my mind to teach her a lesson...and show ppl what sort of a gal she is!!

Answer 1

all that i can tell you is treat ppl how they treat you

Answer 2

Girl why do you want to complicate your own existence?
You will find this kind of girls everywhere, when you get in real world you will find them. My advice is stay away from her, keep a distance. Taking classes together, sitting together does not mean you gotta talk to her...focus on listening professor and forget about her. When she asks you out turn her down. You don't need revenge, a lesson etc because it is creating a stronger bond with her and existence and collegue are already a hard stuff and you want it more complicated.

Answer 3

First I wouldn't worry about the social differences between you two, as for her calling you names, that's rather childish and doesn't sound like college maturity at all. If she was your roommate maybe it would be more annoying, but since she is only your class mate, just don't sit near her in class. Don't talk to her, and eventually classes will change and she'll be out of your life. Basically, don't sweat. it.

Answer 4

Don't do anything that you wouldn't like done to you. Just start to ignore her in every possible way. Spent time with real friends, because real friends don't care about class. Of course every woman likes to have the ability to do or get whatever they want, but it shouldn't be influencing your behavior or friendship.
Let her be responsible for her own behavior and you just do your own thing.

Answer 5

Why stoop to her level? Why not just ignore her, and let it go. People are going to be who they are, and if other people around her can't see it.....they are probably just as shallow as she is. Don't sacrifice your self dignity to apease someone else. Continue to be who you are and allow her to be who she is. You seem as if you are confident with yourself.....she probably isn't. They say that the ones that poke fun at others have issues with themselves. Be the better person and ignore her and move on. It isn't always the easiest solution, but it is the best.

Answer 6

Have hot sex with her (might get some vibrators or dildo's) and film it and put in on the internet for everyone to see.

LiL EarlE

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Answer 7

Are you there to learn? or hold a social hour?

If you are there to learn, then stop all interaction with her, and focus on school.

If you are there to play petty "high school" games, then I'm sure some other users will have better advise.

Answer 8

I recommend that you do nothing. What goes around comes around. Be yourself and don't be something that you are not. A true friend is always there for you, remember that.

Answer 9

just stay away from her, and if she hits you file charges. simple as that. the world is a big place, no need to worry about any one person. there are billions more

Answer 10

Well, supposedly you're an adult, so make the decision to stay away from her. You have that power.

Answer 11

Very long, couldn't read all of it. However, I have a solution, open a can of whoopa$$.....and peace shall reign.