In my past I meet three girls,no one of them understand me even if when I thalk to them, they say "your words are difficalt". So I need a breave one who understand me before explaine those more words.
2007-02-12 04:58:16 · 17 answers · asked by eagleboy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What???
2007-02-12 05:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by ✿Regina Felangie✿ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't give a reason or explanation so it is difficult to answer or help you. You say you need a girl who 'understand' you. It could be to understand you from within as the type of person you really are as in your feelings etc. Somehow I think you are talking about communication? Your could be from a foreign country and perhaps your English is not yet fluent, you could have a speech defect which means you are not speaking clear enough to be understood. These are just a couple of reasons that springs to mind. If it is your English and you are in UK there are numerous classes and support groups to assist you, probably in the US too but again I don't know where you are posting from. If you have a bit of a problem speaking I imagine you have went through the usual channels of speech therapy etc. Try speaking perhaps a little slower and always carry a pen and pencil with you and if necessary write down what you mean. This may be a little tiresome but I have a friend who is completely deaf and dumb and my sign language isn't very good but we still can communicate well if something is written down. Should writing be a problem then again there are many literacy classes around. Don't know if this assists you in anyway as your question is vague. Hope all works out for you.
2007-02-12 05:16:27 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a college grad and in my Speech 101 class... my Professor has a Doctrine in Communications. She made this pretty clear. Something I will share with you.
She quoted that use words the average person can understand. For example most news papers are rated an 8th grade education level. Why use big words when regular words work equally as well.
If your using these $10.00 words for a 50 cent explanation Ive got to ask... Who are you trying to impress? Using your dictionary brain doesn't influence friends and future lovers. It might make you the life of the part but your going to be dating rosey palm more than you may like to because of this situation. Besides women want to date you, the soulful person inside... not your big words.
2007-02-12 05:21:53 · answer #3 · answered by Kill_Me_Now! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will no doubt be an old man before that happens! Seriously... this sort of thing will take time, for you to find this 'right girl' and it sounds like you are fairly young anyway so I would not worry too much about find ing the right one at the moment - just have a good time meeting many girls, dating them and THEN you might see yourself meeting what you would call the right one.
Good luck (and better spelling!)
2007-02-16 04:43:29 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Eagleboy
Firstly, try using the spell check when you are typing.
Secondly, take a course in English & work on your vocabulary. ( look it up in a dictionary)
Thirdly, don't try to explain as it just makes us more confused.
Finally, you can not reason with someone who does not understand you (& we don't)
Goodluck!
2007-02-16 04:14:12 · answer #5 · answered by healer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be more open and tell women what you are saying don't be like this.... "Hey you ill be back at midnight don't Waite up" my boyfriend usually says stuff like this " Hey do we have plans for tonite?' if not " OK well I'm going to billy bobs (or whoever) to drink?" or hell tell me where hes going for what I'm not saying you have to tell her all the details about what you doing and where your going just don't bottle up inside tell her everything she needs to know. I love it when my boyfriend tells me when i ask
2007-02-12 05:09:59 · answer #6 · answered by cold skiing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your grammar seems fairly bad, which anyone would find hard to understand. this could do with some working on.
also try speaking more slowly. not too slow, but slow enough so you dont have to repeat yourself
2007-02-12 05:31:49 · answer #7 · answered by maraesa1000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck
2007-02-12 05:01:58 · answer #8 · answered by danniselv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you find a friend first to talk to, maybe one online so its easier, then you can explain all to them. it might make things easier???
2007-02-16 03:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by GeorgieP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 25 you answered my question where are you from
2007-02-13 03:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by whos_that_girl? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay where your at untill you really know what you want
2007-02-14 03:51:51 · answer #11 · answered by RUSSELLL 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋