Okay so I have been talking to this guy for a little over three months...and then we had sex last Saturday. When we go through, he told me how wonderful I was. We talked everyday after that until Wednesday, then he wouldn't answer my calls or call me back. So I posted the situation on here and asked y'all what his deal was. Well he called me today to tell me that he was sorry, that he really does like me, and he wants to be my friend. He was just afraid that I wanted a relationship. He said that he knows he should have just talked to me but he didnt know how to go about it. So instead he just quit talking to me. What is his deal?
2007-02-12 04:55:55 · 7 answers · asked by spoiledrottenchica1987 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You just told us. I will put it to you slowly.
-he likes you, he wants to be friends with you. probably friends with benefits
-after you had sex together he thought you wanted a relationship with him, you know get serious, take things to the next level
-he got scared, didnt know how to tell you so he avoiding you, like avoiding confortation. For example, you have to tell your girlfriend something that you know could break her heart you would probably avoid her for a couple of days because you didnt know how to approach the situation. He did the same thing.
-He realized that he should have called you sooner but he "didnt know how to go about it"
Now my questions...
Do you want a relationship with him? Did you tell him who you feel about him? You need to communicate these things to each other or could just go really bad.
What i would do, tell him that you just want to be friends "with benefits" get to know each other, try not to get attached and let things it go with the flow.
2007-02-12 05:07:02 · answer #1 · answered by TroubleRose 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The deal is simple he is not able to be honest about what he wants !
Do you need this ?
If yes continue and have your fun.
If not dump him simple as that.
JOIN
2007-02-12 12:59:47 · answer #2 · answered by join_my_world_of_ignore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, that sounds just like me.
Guys don't want to do things like that, they are just scared of getting into a comitted relationship that they don't want to be in.
2007-02-12 12:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by Work is for Busters 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All he wanted was to get laid. Sorry but deal with it.
2007-02-12 12:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by tsionfire 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to break it to ya, but i am afraid your guy wanted something real bad....and when he finally got it he threw you away........ move past.....he seems like a jerk....and you gave something personal away to him so he feels better about himself probably...sorry
2007-02-12 13:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by kf17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pump and dump
2007-02-12 12:59:18 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously failed to read my answer to your 1st question...
2007-02-12 13:09:53 · answer #7 · answered by nalla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋