how can i control my insecurities..? i feel like im driving him away..
its hard because i feel like it controls me sometimes the fact that i dont have that security towards him,. i need advice but good ones i dont need any sarcastic or rude advice ok..people....help please....
2007-02-12 04:52:47 · 5 answers · asked by dat_sweetmami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first off you should talk to him and let him know the problem and you can work on it together.. if the guy cares for you he'll find a way to keep you from pushing him away. take care and good luck! ~katie
2007-02-12 04:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to determine are you feelings are valid. Sometimes, its not always a self-esteem issue (meaning his actions towards you - rude, inconsiderate, untrustworthy, etc). If this is not the case, find out whats causing you to have those issues like if someone mistreated you in the past or you may not feel like you're worthy to be loved. Whatever the reason is, you really need to talk to you bf about it so he can understand where you coming from. He can't change your how you're feeling but if he lets you know that he understands and is willing to help you over come your feelings, then you'll know that you have a good and understanding man. Dont expect changes to be made overnight.
2007-02-12 05:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by gloried 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to think positive and feel good about yourself...Trust him because you care for him...Dont let the negative vibes get a hold of you or it will destroy you and him....Just think positive and keep your mind busy....Good Luck
2007-02-12 05:00:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok to question a guy now and returned yet once you do it to plenty it gets stressful. on your difficulty basically relax if he replace into cheating on you he would not have long previous back alongside with you. for my section its the style you coach off your self belief. i like a woman which could be useful in any respect situations yet isn't via fact she needs you to be the useful one.
2016-11-03 06:09:39 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have some insecurites.. i just try and hide them and keep them to myself because i know they are my insecurities.. my bf can't do anythign to take them away because he's not doing anything to cause them..
i try and convince myself that i'm just a bit insecure.. and i really have no reason to be.. he hasn't done anything to convince me that i should worry.. so why worry..
and very slowly the insecurites kinda go away :)
2007-02-12 04:58:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋