My boyfriend continuously talks to other girls, and after I have told him how much I don't like it, he still does it. He e-mails them and texts them throughout the night. How should I handle this?
2007-02-12 04:45:19 · 9 answers · asked by tan_yuh4112 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
talk to the girls and find out whats going on? if they are honest, you'll find out and relax
2007-02-12 04:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by sufreshman14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just watched an episode of the greg barrant show ( I don't really watch it much), and another girl had the same problem and her b.f. was like " they're just my friends". Gregs answer was to give ask him who was more important. the guy decided to give up his friends. He has to decide who is more important you or the girls he's talking to. Especially if you told him that you don't like it! If he doesn't take that into consideration he really doesn't respect you much.
2007-02-12 12:55:27 · answer #2 · answered by KatieKane 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont mean to sound harsh but you need to be more secure in your relationship. You need to be able to trust your parnter and that means that if he is tlaking to another girl it doesnt mean that anything is going on between them. He should be allowed to have other friends. Now if he has done somethng to be considered untrustworthy that may be a differnet story. If you cant trust the guy...why are you with him? Its just something to ask yourself.
2007-02-12 12:49:31 · answer #3 · answered by Courtney C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious he doesn't respect you the way you want. If you have told him that you don't like him communicating with these other girls, and he continues, take that as a sign.
You deserve someone who will respect your feelings.
2007-02-12 12:49:39 · answer #4 · answered by agentm006 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen and LISTEN good... you should TRY to control your jealousy! i think you're too jealous about him, thinking more about him going to be with one of them, right? but do you expet that he cuts ALL relationship with girls??? i mean... would you be willing to cut ALL relationships with ANY male at all? i bet you can't! take it easy! If he REALLY respects you, he would listen but be considerate! if its normal friendship, then you have to relax and trust that nothing will happen, else... maybe you should get some new boyfriends to text all night too!
2007-02-12 12:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, either he's cheating on you or he's about to. My only advice to you is to leave his azz b4 you get played. Itll be hard, but itll also feel better to know ur not gonna be hurt. Find someone who isn't very flirtatious.
2007-02-12 12:52:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares about talking.. whats wrong with conversing?
if your that insecure then perhaps you need to work on your jealous ways
2007-02-12 12:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not "Your" boyfriend...he's just a boy who happens to be friendly with you. What don't you get about this?
2007-02-12 12:48:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone at least you know he is doing it. If he had something to hide he would do it behind your back.
2007-02-12 12:53:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋