My new beau is very handsome, smart, sweet and all you would want in a man. The only thng is that he is a member of about 15 different sites like myspace, cherry tap, etc...
He can not go a day without talking to these women, and actually sets aside time for them.
He has actually tried to make me go home before so he can talk to them.
He set up a 360 account with yahoo and made me his only friend (which I thought was silly) but, after saying he doesn't want any other girls he has started adding some. Does he have a problem?
2007-02-12 04:40:54 · 18 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He also meets them sometimes. He says they are just friends but it bothers me and he knows it.
2007-02-12 04:45:50 · update #1
If you don't have a problem with him doing these things then stay with him....but, it sounds like it bothers you which it would most normal people. My advice is get out now. It is an obsession with him. Even if he vows to quit which I don't think he will since he tries to run you off sometimes so he can chat with others, he will go back to it soon enough.
2007-02-12 12:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by espee65 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be addicted if he has to go on and he has you.
A little entertainment okay but after a while its like what am I here in reality for if you are in the computer... good luck and slowly take him away from the computer.
he doesn't need the others but he can use it for short entertainment what is so special about the girls on the site
Ask him
2007-02-12 12:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by DreamWishper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, Its one thing if he has a myspace (or whatever) to talk to his old friends( guys or girls) from college or high school, but anything past that, or with the intent to meet other people..then yes its "not right".
Please Please Please, dont get serious with him! If anything, you should leave him for someone who could care less about online sites, and would never make you leave the room/house!
Just be careful or you will end up getting hurt. It is not normal for a boyfriend to be chatting to other girls online.
Good Luck
2007-02-12 12:47:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ash_082 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has tried to get you to go home so he can talk to these other girls, then YES you have a problem, not him. He seems to want to have many girls to talk to and flirt with like he was keeping his options open for someone better. I would rethink this such wonderful guy if I were you.
2007-02-12 12:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY ARE YOU WITH HIM???? Seems like to me hes just one of those nasty perverts who have problems and your sticking by it because of his looks. Why would he send you home so he can mess with those girls on the computer? Stupid!! Just leave him! He aint putting you before them so why be second? or third? or whatever number you may be. Just find someone that is there for you and not a computer pervert.
2007-02-12 12:46:14 · answer #5 · answered by smile114 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG yeah have you talked to him about this thats just scary tell him he can only keep like 2 sites and he needs to limit him self on friends (that are girls)
2007-02-12 12:45:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his problem is he still needs to grow up. Who in their right mind would rather spend time talking to women on line than spending time with one in the flesh so to speak..
2007-02-12 12:46:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't have a problem. It just shows where he is. He obviously has something to learn from this experience.
I would be a leery in getting attached to him. He in not ready for anything long-term.
TS
2007-02-12 12:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by T-Rex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like YOU have a problem = him! If he was really serious about your relationship, he would not take the time to talk with other women on sites like that. If you don't like it (I wouldn't!!) talk to him about it- he should be able to delete the accounts that offend you, and if he won't....then move on hon!
2007-02-12 12:44:25 · answer #9 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well..maybe addicted is more like it. some get that way..i wouldn't continue the relationship if he cant put u first. i can see having other friends..but he obviously takes his online stuff too serious..lots more than real life. good luck
2007-02-12 12:44:18 · answer #10 · answered by wartytoadjody39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋