I date two women casually and I stress casually.
They both know about each other. One of them was visiting me last night at my place and the
other came over unannounced and rang the doorbell.
I didn't answer the door and she left. The woman
who was with me asked why I didn't let my other
friend in if i'm supposed to be casual with both
of them. She said I must have something more with her and did not want her to know that she was there. Should I have let her in?
It makes no sense to me that I would.
2007-02-12 04:18:40 · 12 answers · asked by John 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's a double edge sword, you would have lost both ways... if you would have let her in it would have caused a problem too, maybe with both women...
2007-02-12 04:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by B-Diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she came over unannounced and you were obviously busy- then it was ok to not let her in. She should 'phone first' and know that casual does not mean 'stop in anytime'.
2007-02-12 04:42:25 · answer #2 · answered by 1912 Hudson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 04:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah dont let the other one in lol
but I feel bad for the other girl sitting out there waiting lol
she thought you guys were close enough to stop by like that
2007-02-12 04:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i think you did good, if you let her in then you dont know what the other girls reaction would have been. You dont know what kind of situation it may have been. She just wanted to see her and see how you reacted, she just wanted trouble.
2007-02-12 04:22:53 · answer #5 · answered by alex77055 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be like that pick one of them and stop being so Imature grow up don't be egoist think how that would affect the girls if they find out.
2007-02-12 04:23:33 · answer #6 · answered by Smiley17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, good idea. You need to keep the cats apart. They say 'its fine...really...' when in reality they really mean, 'if he lets her in, not only can he kiss me goodbye, but im gonna rip out homegirls weave'
2007-02-12 04:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both woman don't care about, perhaps you are the luckiest guy in the world.
But I don't understand your value and their value in friendship or relationship?
2007-02-12 04:24:43 · answer #8 · answered by Zahir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it is your home and you get to choose whom you want to spend time with. Unless she was willing to have a threesome then you did the right thing.
2007-02-12 04:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your just not smooth enough to play the game. If you were smooth enough you would have had them both.
2007-02-12 04:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋