I think tongue kissing is nasty?

Question

maybe because i haven't done it enough (i'm 18) i just don't see what the bid deal is so someone please tell me. my bestfriend thinks i'm childish but i'm being dead serious it turns me off

Answer 1

Every one has his/her way of doing their on thing. I thought that for a while now I rather enjoy it with the right person. You have not found Mr. Right yet. All that will change.

Answer 2

When you think about it, is is... because you're tasting what the other person had for dinner or lunch hours before, and it's ironic that people won't share a bottled-water mouth (for germs), but will kiss the same person mouth-to-mouth? But, what's the alternative? Living without love? Being distant? Watching TV while your paramour goes about their business? When you're passionate enough (or have been given enough to drink -- something every girl should watch, always... like an Air Marshall aboard a mideast airplane!). There's reasons why we do it, as people -- and animals don't. You'll learn to get into it, over time even if you wind-up pulling out someone's tooth-filling or parts of a pepperoni from their pizza lunch.

Answer 3

It relies upon on the different man or woman i'm kissing. If she's no longer very alluring, that's not nasty. that's basically uninteresting. If she's warm, that tongue-kissing can grow to be a inn warning call.

Answer 4

If it turns you off then it turns you off. You're not being childish at all.
Maybe you're right, though. Perhaps you've just had a few bad experiences with some over zealous partners, but don't be afraid to voice your displeasure with the act and expect consideration in that regard from your next beau. Then, together, you can find out what works and what doesn't, experimenting at your own comfortable pace, not theirs.

Answer 5

WOW.... You are the first person I've ever met that doesnt LOVE it. IM a HUGE fan of french kissing! Maybe you just havent done it with the right person. Someone who knows how to do it right... I say KISS SOME OTHER PEOPLE. See how they kiss. Everyone kisses differently. Good luck

Answer 6

It's nasty and invasive if done with the wrong person.

With someone you truly love and trust and respect though, it can be a natural feeling.

However, having someone try to suck your tonsils out is awful. When it's good tounge kissing, it's a very light contact.

Sucking ? I could blow or pick my own nose, thankyouverymuch. I don't need a human vacuum cleaner.

Answer 7

It is nasty, but so is every other thing adults do when exchanging bodily fluids. Kissing, oral sex, and sex in general is quite nasty when you think about it. We are exchanging bacteria, sticky fluids, and all kinds of stuff, but oh well. We are designed to do that. That's why it is important to find a lifelong partner to share your life with and not have to worry about STD's as a result of promiscuity. Don't believe the hype! Promiscuity is not ok.

Answer 8

I was exactly the same way, until I met my husband. I couldn't stand the thought of swapping spit. It just seemed disgusting. Although, when you're attracted to that certain someone, your mind might change, or it may never will. You either like it or you may never. Try it when you're ready to become really intimate with someone. It may be one of those amazing moments in your life - you're actual first kiss! For now, don't fuss about it. It's way out of your comfort zone...

Answer 9

If it turns you off, odds are that you haven't found a guy that knows how to kiss! It's an art form. If a man can't kiss properly, then it's highly unlikely he can do anything else right either!

Answer 10

Tongue kissing is really good and I enjoy it very much. You should try with a man you love to get a feel of it.