My bf b-day was the second month after we meet it was last year 2006, and for his b-day I bought him cologne and I give him gift card to his favorite closing store. Next week is his b-day he will be 21 this year, he told me last year that he doesn’t like to go out he doesn’t like to party he said his b-day is like ever other day. So for his b-day this year I bought him a bed because he doesn’t have one and I was going to get him a shirt also. His b-day is the Feb.15. So he calls me today and said that he doesn’t trust me because he thinks I lied on his b-day last year. And I said lie about what? He said that last year on his b-day I told him that I couldn’t have sex with because I had my period that that time and he thinks I lied to him because I don’t have my period this week my period starts march first and I was trying to explain it to him that it is impossible to be the same every year and he just said why don’t u admitted that u are lying to me? I was not lying but he thinks I am. And also he said that for his b-day he is going to a club with his roommate I mean what I should say to him if he can’t trust me know he would never trust me ever. And do u think I should say if u don’t trust me there is no way we should be together
2007-02-12 03:25:00 · 17 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WOW! You sound like a sweet lady and i would be honored to be your BF. At such a young age as he is 21 i believe you said, he is just a kid in mind. Mentally he is not thinking and is really into the party scene and does not tell you. I think also he has someone on the side and he is ashamed to say anything.
I know your intentions are well ment but be careful and look for someone who will appriciate you and the little things you do.
I know what i am saying cause at 21 I did not have it all together either. Just advise ok!!
2007-02-12 03:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by craig_snow2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey listen, don't stress yourself out he sounds like a real CREEP, he probably wants to see "other people" or he already has and just donesn't want to tell you. You shouldn't buy him a darn thing keep that money and go get your feet done and your nails and hair done. Go and find yourself a nice young man who derseves such good treatment. You sound like a very nice young lady who knows how to take care of her man, but don't waist that on some ungrateful jerk like him. There are plenty of guys out here for you, a relationship is based on trust so if any guy says he doesn't trust you and you know you haven't done a single thing to make them feel that way chanses are they are the ones no to be trusted, if there is no trust kiss the relationship good by because it won't work, but you live and you learn and life still goes on, so take care of yourself and before you know it you will be with a nice guy who loves and respects you and later on down the line the "jerk" will realize what he had and will try to come back, but don't give him the time of day, he was only there to be a learning experience and nothing more. Good luck and God bless you honey
2007-02-12 03:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by Lovely 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Return the bed, and get your money back.. the boy is lying through his teeth, and trying anything to get a little upset with you for his birthday. He has plans with his friends obiviously, and wants to go out with them. He doesn't deserve your gift, and your time. Either he is really stupid, or he is just making this up about your period, so that he has an excuse to not see you on his day. OK? So why buy him a bed, so that some other girl in the long run sleep in it with him. Nooo.. girl.. just get him a shirt, or a watch.. but nothing major like a bed.. damn...lol
2007-02-12 03:35:41 · answer #3 · answered by MOON13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he has trust issues. The fact is, even if you did lie he doesn't have a right to call you a liar without proof . . . and try to prove a woman wasn't on her period during any day a year ago . .
Anyway. If you want to be with him, just let him know you didn't lie. Then ask him if this sex thing is so important that he is willing to risk the relationship over it.
2007-02-12 03:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationships are based on trust, love, and communication. Without trust, the relationship won't survive. It sounds like your guy is the one who can't be trusted. Why else would he accuse you of lying about something that's not in your control? You deserve somebody who isn't going to put you through that. Many blessings.
2007-02-12 03:36:32 · answer #5 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to tell him to grow the f - uck up and needs to learn a lil bout women, not only would it almost never land on the same time cuz of the calander change, but what holiday lands on the same day every year, not to mention he needs to know that its not once a month you get it its every 28 dayz (yeah i know thats an ave, it might not be exact) but you need to get mean and just tell him to grow the **** up and maybe learn a lil bout a womans body, so maybe you can plz me once in awhile, snap, snap...lol no but really tell him if he don't beleave you ask his mom, dr. a college teacher ask any other female on the planet...lol man is he a dork and im' sorry, if it was me (being you) i would dump his *** for being so stupid, cuz if he is like this bout this, whats he like with other things
2007-02-12 03:47:49 · answer #6 · answered by dom_parnell 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No trust equals no relationship. Bottomline. He sounds quite posessive. Not a good sign at all. If he doesn't straighten up, then you need to get out of the relationship.
2007-02-12 03:31:31 · answer #7 · answered by Goober W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't waste money on this guy! He needs to grow up. First he's telling you his birthday is "just another day", then he gets all creepy and says you're lying because you're not putting out? Oh, boo hoo. You know what I'd do? I'd get myself all dressed up and go out with my friends, not his lame insecure a*s on his birthday.
2007-02-12 03:37:17 · answer #8 · answered by Mudbug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is really that stupid that he thinks it will fall on the same date every year, then you probably should look for someone with more intelligence.
Besides that though, it looks like he is trying to get you to break up with him. He is probably "done" with your relationship and doesn't have the guts to tell you, so he is trying to get you to dump him. I assume based on your question that this is pretty obvious to you, but you are looking for someone to agree with you.
2007-02-12 03:31:21 · answer #9 · answered by jonmm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
end it. if he will make a trust issue out of his own ignorance or biology then you need to get away before it gets worse. mainly i would say it just sounds like an excuse to go out without you.
2007-02-12 03:29:47 · answer #10 · answered by randini692000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋