Girls say they like sweet and nice guys, but they always end up with ******* or so it seems. I guess because thats all they think they can get? idk I just want to know the truth. What do women really want in a guy?
2007-02-12 03:20:48 · 18 answers · asked by Wes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some women are drawn to the "bad boy" image...But most of us want a guy that is sweet, and likes us for our selves not for how beautiful we are! We love deep thinking and generous boys! One that will fuss over us and share nice walks and cuddling.....We love guys that are NOTshallow!
2007-02-12 03:24:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sparkling♥Jules♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women do like sweet and nice guys. they usually end up with A**holes because they have a low self esteam. Don't give up being a good person because you will end up not being happy. The right girl is probably just around the corner. Hope this helps, take care HEather
2007-02-12 11:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
We like the bad guys cause we just do we say we want sweet guys but we really like to get treated like you know what, to tell the truth. But my guy is really sweet and I had to make myself stop liking ****** because they were not doing my emotional health any good. But no girl wants a guy who is a push-over. Be yourself that is what i women really wants.
2007-02-12 11:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's because women don't know what they want. They complain about what they want out of a relationship and they're not getting it - yet they turn around and go after the same guy over and over again. When they're younger they go after the "Jack A$$", motorcycle riding, tattoo having, party animal, disrespecting, womanizing man of a man and get screwed over time and time again because it's not the man... it's the challenge to tame him. Women are just as bad as men but they are better at articulating and censoring why their relationships go wrong.
2007-02-12 11:29:10 · answer #4 · answered by Cdub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on their age....when they're younger, they go for bad men b/c they have low self esteem and think they can't get a nice boy. Plus when you're young, you want a bad boy....then as you grow older and more wise, you want a nice guy, not too nice, then you really wouldn't get to know the real person b/c they'd be keeping feelings and thoughts in just to make you happy. That's not good b/c when they finally can't take it anymore, they might snap.
2007-02-12 11:26:23 · answer #5 · answered by inlovewow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally want someone who would treat me right and care about me as much as I care for him. That's what most girls want I do agree that most of the time girls may fall for the wrong guy the opposite of what they said they wanted. But everyone makes mistakes it's just when you fall in love it's hard to let him go and love is blinding
2007-02-12 11:34:10 · answer #6 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women want a guy who is nice to them, will cherish them, will make a good husband and only love her for ever and ever.
That being said, for some reason, they are always attracted to the bad boy, the guy who stands out as different, (Black if she is white) extra tall, good car, capt of sports team.
I have seen it time and time again, the worse she is treated by this "Stand out" guy, the more she clings to him
Go figure
2007-02-12 11:27:43 · answer #7 · answered by bob shark 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its very simple, guys just like to make it seem complicated...all that most woman want is a man that is going to be there for his family, to be honest and faithfull. To be dependable. A man that is willing to go the extra mile to make us happy. And it doens't take much to do that. We just want to hear you tell us that you love us and appreciate all that we do. Woman want to hear that we are beautiful even on our worst days. We want a man that can make us laugh but can also provide a good shoulder to cry on. You don't need to be the smartest or most handsome man in the world. Woman just want to know that you need us and love us and that we will never be betrayed by our man.
2007-02-12 11:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman say that they have only been with a holes etc.. because it didn't work out. The guy is perfect for soemone, but ovbiosly not her. they see how he is when they first meet him, but they hope he'll change for me.Not gonna happen. you only change your self when you try to change other peope. We don't want someone to square , but real. dont lie to get in and don't front. in a lot of cases she makes him th easshole. you'll never hear the true story because who makes them self out to be the bad person?
2007-02-12 11:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.Vick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupid girls like the assholes, smart ones like the nerds. The nerd will be so shocked that a girl wants anything to do with them that they will worship the ground the girl walks on and do whatever she wants. So, for a girl, the smart thing to do is to hook up with a nerd, especially since they usually end up owning corporations to get back at the jocks.
But yeah, be an asshole, you'll get more girls.
2007-02-12 11:25:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋