I dated david for over a year on and off. he would tell me he loves me and change his mind ina week or so. this happened about ten times or more. i couldnt walk away completly cause i loved him so much. i would go to him crying and he would bluntly break my heart. so after all this time i deceded to let go. met this guy george who is very sweet and good to me. I was still talkin to david cause i always have. He showed up and made a scene and was upset i had a guy at my house, even though david and i arent together. I went to him tellin him if he were serious i would drop this guy. When he said he was I got scared knowing that this pattern happens over and over. I told dave after that I needed time to think about it, cause i couldnt stand heartbreak again.It seems david only wants me cause someone else does. I am affraid to push away david cause i love him but i still know he hurts me by being unsure. George has no clue i talk to dave and i dont wanna hurt him either. Empty promises?
2007-02-12 03:15:24 · 5 answers · asked by marcie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It sounds to me like you need to drop David. He's just messing with your mind. Do you actually want to be with a guy who can't make up his friggin mind? Then, I think you should take some personal time to get over David before you start dating anyone else. It wouldn't be fair to any other guy you date,if you still haven't gotten over your ex. Don't get yourself into a situation where you are dependent on a man for your happiness and self worth. Dump David and break contact with him. Mourn your loss and don't date anyone else until you have gotten over David. My opinion.
2007-02-12 03:23:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently going through a break up and believe me I wish I could find a guy like your George to help me get through this. This is all I pray for every day as I am desperately trying to forget my past boyfriend. Keep George, you are right, Dave only interest in you is because now you have someone else. Appreciate the good guy you have and try to have less contact with Dave as this will only lead you to be confused and also it will jeopardise what you have with George. Good luck to you!
2007-02-12 03:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I've had this simular situation happen...
U and David need to be friends, and just that..... But since u have history u might just want to talk on the phone or it might cause trouble..... I have been good freinds with my ex steven who did that which David did to u, and I let him, and we became freinds but always cheated bc our history.....So we only talk on phone, unless we're single..
Give George a chance he seems sweet and wants to make u happy, talk about David to get over him but not to george or it'll cause problems...
GOOD LUCK
2007-02-12 03:23:08 · answer #3 · answered by Adrianna N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talking from experience . I would let this David person go. you said it yourself.He only wants you cause someone else does .You only love him cause you can't have him . This relationship with him is going nowheres . I did this so many times,until finally I realized I was just going around in a vicious cycle I gave him all my power and he treated me like dirt. I finally took my heart back and walked away with his and you can too. It's better his heart then yours
2007-02-12 03:30:36 · answer #4 · answered by winnerfull-1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow that sounds so familiar but yet diffrent mine is the opp. thiery left me and came back to me and the ex after thiery wont leave me alone all i can really say is follow your heart sounds to me like george is for real to me!!
2007-02-12 03:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by Marley's momma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋