well....i'm 15.....for the last 5 years...we talk no more...i have a huge crush on her......and i think i don't have any chance to make her mine...coz she already likes my friend....and now i'm really jealous of 'im....and i feell really hurt....should i tell her what i feel? even though it may embarass me?
i fell in love to her at the first tym we saw each other in 3rd grade.....then after the 3rd grade......poof......she never spoke to me ever again......until now i'm still in love to her.....
2007-02-12 02:58:44 · 15 answers · asked by •Code•Prinny• 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay you are 15 years and yes you are very young. I don't think its worth for you to fight this to get her. I am sure there are more girls in your school and expect you to like them and give you a change to find other better girl. Good luck.
2007-02-12 03:02:27 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you love her since the 3rd grade I say go for it, talk 2 her. Tell her,"Hey since the third grade I've had a crush on you. I know you like my friend and knowing this it's hurtful but I want to ask you if there might be a chance for us to get together?"
If she says no flat out, I think you should TRY to forget her, like I always say, "There are a lot of fish in the sea"
2007-02-12 11:13:17 · answer #2 · answered by chaparrita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK maybe young is not the reason to not sweat it... it seems that you need to tell her how you have strong feelings and let that be the last draw and if nothing comes from it, move on, it will be hard, but move on, and just take it slow, take your time, don't rush love, seems like at your age you are already in love so your probably vulnerable and you fall in love quickly, this only means you have a good heart.... nothing more... so confront her be real, and if she doesn't take action then please, please let her go... at the end your going to be hurt if you keep trying.
2007-02-12 11:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by prettygirlme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure you are "in love" I think you are just hung up on this chick...Try someone new...OR tell her what you think...would you rather go through life not knowing what could have happened OR would you just rather take a chance and go with it...You never no she could have the same feelings as you!
2007-02-12 11:03:04 · answer #4 · answered by ~Jamaica~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Part of your problem is that you have been 15 for 5 years.
2007-02-12 11:03:50 · answer #5 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go on. There are some things we just can't have in life because they are part of the growing up process. I still remember my first crush, also. Her name was Cindy Peterson, and she was the only kid in class who had hairier arms than me! But she was a doll! I know it's frustrating, but yoiu know the old saying, "What doesn't kill us makes us stronger!"
2007-02-12 11:06:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u too young to be in love. u just have a crush on her, so the best thing to do is to let her go and if she ever loved u she will come to u when the time is right.
2007-02-12 11:04:07 · answer #7 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? You are so young and have so much more growing up to do; people to meet and places to see before you start falling in love or think you understand what "being in love" means.
2007-02-12 11:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Cdub 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell her in the exact way you just explained it. If she says it's not mutual then you don't have to worry about it anymore. Your story is so sweet, I don't know how she can say no. But you don't want to go through your whole life wondering "what if..." do you?
2007-02-12 11:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by B2B2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
date a girl thats one grade higher then that chick...watch her explode with jealousy...then when you are out of high school sit back and laugh at how these small little crushes seem so silly
2007-02-12 11:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Chrissy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋