im 18 my now ex bf is 23 my story really long and too much for details but i liked this boy but loves to party and drink and i go to church and stuff we are like 2 diff... people and he went to jail and i found out that he had a baby ........ do you think that its stupid that i broke up with him because he went to jail?? and that he has a kid and the fact that he is 23 and im 18??
2007-02-12 02:45:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
huney u just need to ask yourself if u love him, and are u willing to look past all that stuff and go for the good man he is!? if u are then age is nothing but a number, and his past is over with! best wishes! follow your heart!
2007-02-12 02:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by rckstar88 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't think the age part is too terribly important, I am almost 23 and my ex was 18. But as for the jail part, you have morals and there is nothing wrong with that. I think you would have to consider why he went to jail. Some people go to jail for respectable reasons believe it or not. Like the movie Con-Air, Nicholas Cage's character went to jail for protecting his wife. That may be far fetched, but you never know. The kid thing depends too, did he originally lie to you about it? If so, you can't be blamed at all.
2007-02-12 02:53:53 · answer #2 · answered by army_leads_the_way 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I think you're instinctively looking out for #1. You should always come first, and I mean that in the sense of you gotta make yourself happy before you can make anyone else happy.
If you're not satisfied with this loser, there are definitely 1,000 other people in the world who will satisfy you. This guy sounds like a drama trainwreck...you dont need that anxiety dear.
2007-02-12 02:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by shortbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not stupid. You did what you thought was best for yourself and your interests. Good looking out. You're still young and I'm assuming you're just finishing or fresh out of high school? You have your whole life ahead of yourself. There will be plenty of men that will head your way in the many years to come. Enjoy it.
2007-02-12 03:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you go to church.... in the bible, wasn't jesus arrested? and doesn't it say jesus made water into whine? i think its pretty stupid for you to brake up for those reasons. i think its rather shallow too, but maybe its better that you broke up because it seems obvious that with all this doubt it was inevitable anyway.
2007-02-12 02:58:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! Stay away from men who are in Jail! Good for you!
2007-02-12 02:49:31 · answer #6 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you need a secured future for you and your future kids he will never change and you be stuck find a better person you deserve it . trust me on this one my father was like that when young he is 60 now and still chasing *** and i feel bad for my mom who is still his wife but is now to late for her to find a man that can love her
2007-02-12 02:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yh i think its stupid u split up becos he went to jail and no alot of people have children at younger ages of 23!!! and theres no problem with the age difference!!! if u like each other then theres no objection really [feel free to add my yahoo - its wat shows alredy, no diffrence]
2007-02-12 02:51:51 · answer #8 · answered by rooney92000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is hiding things from you he can not be trusted. No reason to be in a relationship that is not open and honest
2007-02-12 02:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it isn't stupid to break up with him, you listed several reasons that he is not right for you. Don't let him drag you back into this relationship.
2007-02-12 02:50:04 · answer #10 · answered by suesue 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋