My so-called boyfriend has been hanging out with whoever(he says guy friends, but i believe he's cheating on me) for the past couple of weeks. I finally got fed up with it and went out this weekend. When he called me, i told him i was busy, to go call up what ever chick he's been dealing with when he disappears almost every night until 12 in the morning. He kept calling me, but I didn't answer his calls, and finally turned my phone off until last night. When I did call him back last night, he told me he didn't trust me, he didn't know where i was the other night, and to go deal with who ever i wanted to because he he doesnt want to see me for a few days. He also said stop calling him for a while. Then he calls me at 1 am to tell me he's going to our house(I stopped staying there a few weeks ago) and don't come over. I called him this morning, but he won't answer his phone. Is he trying to tell me it's over without actually having the "breakup talk"? Why would he call me at 1am??
2007-02-12 02:42:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its over so just move on
2007-02-12 02:46:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first mistake was, you accused him of cheating without finding the facts
second, you pushed him away, by not answering his phone calls
third, hes paying you back for not answering his calls
just give up and move on, you both made mistakes that you probably wont be able to overcome
2007-02-12 10:52:19 · answer #2 · answered by GatorHunter® 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just lay low dont call him and act like you dont care. If he contacts you again its not over if he doesnt....its over. He was so insecure about where you where because he knows hes been cheatinfg on you and he dont want to be cheated on. get it.....move on
2007-02-12 11:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by jdnsmama1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it kind of sounds like you pushed him out the door, finally.. with your antics of this weekend..
Being a ***** doesn't help the situation if it's messed up already.. ?? and two wrongs don't make a right..
Sorry.. maybe you'l find someone you trust..
2007-02-12 10:48:01 · answer #4 · answered by michele 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes , and i think he has been cheating too! he is a bad guy for doing that to you.
2007-02-12 10:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah he's a putz.
2007-02-12 11:17:34 · answer #6 · answered by SuperHamster 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea its over.
2007-02-12 10:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by Trey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋