...I think I am in love, but i Don't know...Is there a time when your sure its love?
2007-02-12 02:37:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't ask us but you can ask yourself. Follow your brain and your heart, both. if you think about him a lot, want to see him more, want to chat with him more than you expect. Yes you are in love.
2007-02-12 02:40:51 · answer #1 · answered by MissGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can answer this question because TOO many times I have been in this situation. Love is a difficult thing to predict, sometimes a very serious lust for someone can lead to a belief that you love them. Ask yourself these questions:
Would you do ANYTHING for them?
Would you die without them? (This is not meant as a literal death)
And if you were to lose them would you be able to forget about them?
I've been in two relationship where I fell in love and have ended up having my heart broken, and I went many many weeks and months without feeling the same. I have learned a lot through the years, and I think a lot of it was because of the "love" I have felt. If you're able to move on without them when they leave, you're not in love you're infatuated, lust. If you wouldn't do anything for them, its not love. Too many times have I compromised and gotten nothing in return and that is a crappy feeling.
Love is a natural thing, and theoretically, it is a VERY abstract concept...NOBODY can tell you whether you are in love or not, that is for you to decide. But, love is also something that if you're too young you might think you feel it but probably don't, as I said a lust for someone can lead to strong feelings as well. It is for you to decide whether you are in love, but those questions pose a good guideline as to how you can figure it out.
Good luck! And if you are in love, may it all work for you in the future.
2007-02-12 10:47:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really were in love then you wouldn't be asking this. I used to have what if scenarios in my head about my mom like what if she actually did die in that car accident and just thinking about it happening made tears come to my eyes. when I was dating I would think that of guys I was with and nothing. Until I met my husband. After a while He had an almost incident at work and I thought out the scenario of the cop telling me my boyfriend had been killed at work and I got tears to my eyes. the same thing happens now when I think of something happening to my son. If You think of something bad happening to them and how you would feel and get tears to your eyes then you must love them.
2007-02-12 10:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by tinymight78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when your heart quickens when you think of him, you get this warm feeling all over when you know you're gonna see him. You dress up for him, you think of him when you're doing even the most minimal tasks. You start writing his last name after your first name. Yep thats love. Your thoughts will revolve around him, what he is doing, where he is, when he is gonna call, and you think of the next time you will be together!!!!!
2007-02-12 10:41:13 · answer #4 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ull know it huney! its not something that gets confused with another feeling! its that one feelings that wont go away, and that u more than likely wont be able to explain, and thats perfect. when u cant possibly explain how u feel for him to anyone, and the thought of him gives u butterflies then huney it love! i hope u found good henst love and that ur happy! best of wishes, follow your heart!
2007-02-12 10:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by rckstar88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i just hop u been wi' the guy at least for one year and then you'lll can figure it out..also if u feel that you need to be with him all the time...if you there for him no matta what... if you treat him good even though he dont treat u dat good then u in love,,also if you take all his bullshyt daz when u kno u fukd
2007-02-12 10:43:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you are really truly in love. You won't have to ask yourself whether or not you are in love. There will be no question in your mind.
2007-02-12 10:43:21 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you get this great filling, like you know its right, then your in love.
2007-02-12 10:46:57 · answer #8 · answered by Maximum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you'll know..u will be consumed with this person, and at the same time you could kill them when things are bad
2007-02-12 10:41:23 · answer #9 · answered by F_U_Y_A--T.G.Answeroni5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When reality is better than any dream you could ever have.
2007-02-12 10:43:35 · answer #10 · answered by Greg S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋