My gf & I have been dating for 2 ½ years.Last week she told me she was unhappy w/our relationship.She said that we come from 2 diff.paths; she doesn’t know if she can be with my family, & she has to push me to do everything.She looks at everything I have done in the past as a negative.I just went back to school after 6 years, & to her that’s a neg.She came from a home where she very rarely had to pay for anything, dated ppl who had $ & class.Her mom would make comments about ex’s while I was at the house, about them having class & how wonderful they were.It seems like b/c I’m not as classy & have $, she has doubts.She doesn’t seem to see that there is no telling what the future holds.Last week she hung out w/an old guy friend from hs w/o me.she needed space, she told me what they did.On sat.I called her when I was coming back home.When I got ½ way home I needed gas, gas by my home is $.15 higher then where she lives.
2007-02-12 02:12:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
On the way I got really sick & called her to see if I could use her bathroom she said ok when I got there I noticed that the guy she hung out w/& her friend were both there & she was mad at me. all she told me was she was watching a movie. so when I showed up she seemed angry. I have always been there for her when she was sick, to the point of taking off of work.What’s going on?
2007-02-12 02:13:42 · update #1
now that i have had a few days to think about it. she was acting wierd on saturday. when i called. when i told her that i loved her, on the phone she said "you too." the guy from hs she was hanging out with, when i asked her if i could meet him she said he doen't get along with males, but when i got there he was there along with her other friend who is gay. this is getting me thinking. help please
2007-02-12 02:18:13 · update #2
She say she still loves me, and will always care for me. but she doesn't know about our relationship
2007-02-12 02:50:00 · update #3
She's sending some pretty strong signals here....I think *you* are the one with the class. Just because people have money, does not mean they're classy. You are dependable and loyal, and in my book, that makes you classy. If she wants space -- give it to her and move on. I think you deserve someone with as much class as you have.
2007-02-12 02:17:10 · answer #1 · answered by Liza 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, honey, it sounds like she wants to end things but isn't sure how to do it. 2 and a half years is a long time to be with someone and it's hard to just disattach. Ask her what she wants to do. Express your side of it & let her know how you feel about all of this. Make sure you tell her how bad it's hurting you.
Who knows, maybe there's been something on her mind that you guys can work through. Maybe you two need space apart to grow as individuals.
Good luck!
2007-02-12 02:19:48 · answer #2 · answered by Winette 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, she sounds stuck up. And, I hate to tell you, but can you say "emotional cheating?" Now, weather she is cheating on you emotionally or not, she seems to have some issues. Let her go, and you will be much better off. But, if you feel the relationship is worht saving, go over to her house, and tell her you have to talk, and that you will not take no fo an answer. Tell her how you feel, but be calm and do not yell. If she gives you an attitude, saw your done, and leave.
I hope it al works out. Good luck.
2007-02-12 02:20:06 · answer #3 · answered by Linka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like she isn't real supportive of you. You need to have a long talk with her about how you feel. Maybe she doesn't realize shes being a pain because noone in her life has ever told her. Class isn't something you can buy class is something based upon a human beings character. If you feel uncomfortable about some of her decisions, just tell her.
2007-02-12 02:18:35 · answer #4 · answered by jack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry for you. She is using you and you do not deserve that. No one does! Tell her your self that it is done and over. If she is seeing other guys - then she really has no regard for you. And as for class - she has none! If she did she would not be doing this to you. She sounds spoiled and rotten to the core. Run, fast and far - you'll find someone better! Trust me!
2007-02-12 02:19:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you got class,standard,morality and ambition.you are an even bigger
man than any of her friends.you can't play this game she's playing.
stay away from her,let her go.she'll never miss the water till the well runs dry.
best of luck in life you can make it.try a less pumpus girl
2007-02-12 02:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by FLEUR 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's showing signs that she doesn't wanna be with you . You seem like a sweet guy you can find a gurl that'll really appreciate you more
2007-02-12 02:24:00 · answer #7 · answered by mz_southw3st_diva 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
four words: get the hell out! she don't deserve you dude. if she had a "negative" feeling about you going back to school then screw her! she should get an education so she won't be so snobby... there are many other girls who prefer guys like you. snobby girls don't deserve guys like you.
2007-02-12 02:22:37 · answer #8 · answered by Sof723 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like its over .. get out before you get really hurt.
2007-02-12 02:15:48 · answer #9 · answered by bajajunglemama 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget her, plenty more fish.
2007-02-12 02:15:55 · answer #10 · answered by Mighty C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋