A friend of mine has been dating this guy for about 3 years now. An when they have there downs she puts him out and say that she's never going to let him back in. An before you know it he's right back into the picture. So this last time she put him out he was trying to come back like the next day. So it ended up in a big arugment(my friend and he boyfriend). An she wanted me to help put him out of her house. He wouldnt leave so she had call the cops. Now a week and a half later he right back into her life again. So I told her I'm tired of her putting me in the middle of there prombles only for her to trun right around to take him back again. An that she dont vaule our friendship because if she did she would leave him alone after their frist big arugement and I tryed to be the peace maker and got an perment scar on my face behind it. An she took him back 3 days later. When I told her that she got mad and told me that I was wrong for saying that to her. What should I do.
2007-02-12 01:57:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friend really doesnt appreciate you trying to help, and shes wrong. Your never out of place if youre showing concern. You have to tell her how much you love her and explain how you were only trying to help. Hun your friend needs to see that shes on a roller coaster love life right now and shell be down again. I can tell you really love your friend and I know you wouldnt want her to be hurt. You have to tell her this boy is fooling with her emotions. If shes a good friend to you too shell consider thinking about the boy and how their relationship REALLY isnt working out.
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2007-02-12 02:05:46 · answer #1 · answered by You've Already Won Me Over 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In this particular situation there's not much you can do. She's obviously confused about this guy. One minute throwing him out and the next taking him back. You can say all you want to say, but in the end she will choose him. The question is do you want a friend that's going to stress you out over her boyfriend problems. All I can tell you is just leave her alone and do you. And when she comes to you asking why you didnt say anything... then you can tell her because the last I tried too and you got upset.
2007-02-12 02:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Angelia 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Distance yourself. She has a real problem and needs to make a decision about him once and for all. It's not right to put you in the middle of their arguements. Next time she asks, tell her that she has to deal with him on her own because you cannot get involved anymore. It is dangerous for you and her friendship sounds one sided.
2007-02-12 02:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! You are not wrong, and you have every right to say something. If she is going to ring you into it, than she can't expect you not to have an opinion. Personaly, I think you are better of without her. Sje needs to learn to stand on her own two feet, and stand up for what she is doing. And you don't need that kind of person in your life. You need something more positive.
2007-02-12 02:10:28 · answer #4 · answered by Linka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing! It's not your problem nor your buisness. Tell her, don't come to me with this issue of you and him, deal with it on your own. A couple like this, thrives on breaking out. That's what they like to do, no matter how unhealthy it is. So stay out of it, and mind your own, sorry, but you have to. My roommate does the say thing at least 3 times a month with her boyfriend and i don't say anything, I just listen to her when she complains and nothing more. Stay out of it, you'll have less headaches.
2007-02-12 02:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people thrive on drama; if it doesn't occur naturally in their lives, they create it. It sounds like your friend is one of them.
I know you want to help, but your friend just plain doesn't want to be helped. Don't let her put you in the middle.
2007-02-12 02:41:18 · answer #6 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are a reflection of where you are in life. The question that comes to my mind: why do you choose to have this in your life? You may have your own growing to do?
Take a close look at yourself not your friend....
2007-02-12 02:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by T-Rex 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nothing. Let her deal with her own problems. I would stop being friends with her.
2007-02-12 02:06:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course you are wrong, its none of your business slutbucket
2007-02-12 02:02:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋