i have just started dating a guy and he wants to take me out on Wednesday....ie valentines day. Its a little scary but should be cool. Where should i suggest we go (he said its up to me) and should i get him a card.
I usually find the whole thing silly but hes being so sweet!!!
2007-02-12 01:54:55 · 29 answers · asked by Carrot 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just to add we been on bout 4 dates and been chatting for few weeks now.
i do like him but dont wanna take it too fast or give him the wrong impression. I do well like him tho!!!!
2007-02-12 02:17:22 · update #1
Go somewhere that's pretty casual and nothing romantic. You could get him a card...its a nice thought, but make it a funny card, and not a lovey dovey card.
2007-02-12 01:57:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something totally low key. Dont fall into the whole romantic thing just cause its vday and everyone else is doing it. If your not there yet just be chill. If you do decide to get him a card get one that talks about a new friendship or something that isnt way overboard. Because its vday you may feel the pressure to move faster than normal. If he makes you feel uncomfortable and goes overboard remind him that this is brand new and youre not ready for all that. Maybe you could do something fun and active together like snowboarding, bowling, skating, paint ball or surfing. No idea where you live so pick something you'd both have fun doing and is easily accessable. It will keep your minds off the pressure of the day and allow you to relax and just have fun together. That's the whole point, right?
2007-02-12 02:03:16 · answer #2 · answered by Jaboopster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you just started dating, I'd get him a silly V-day card, not a gushy one. Also, suggest something like Olive Garden or Chilli's.. A non-formal restaurant. That way its not a huge tab and you can offer to pitch in, chances are he'll decline, but you never know, so make sure you have the cash on hand.
Good luck Hun, I hope you have fun!
2007-02-12 01:59:09 · answer #3 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how long you've been seeing each other really...do u think deep down that getting him a card for valentines day would b inappropriate? but then if he's asked u out on that specific day then he's sort of got u a prezzie hasnt hew? if you go on regular dates together just step it up a gear...if u usually meet for drinks go for a meal...if you've done that already why not do both. maybe start with a drink, go for a meal and then head to a few nice bars...make a night of it...just enjoy your time together
2007-02-12 02:02:14 · answer #4 · answered by carly-jayne r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go out with him. Well it also depends on how long you have known him for. I know you said you just met him, but does that mean a few days ago of like a few weeks ago. Try it out, take a chace. Go somewhere simple, fun. Maybe dinner.
2007-02-12 02:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get the card, nothing to serious nothing to light..find something you would give to a dear guy friend...thats way your " safe" its not to much. I think as far as Valentines Days goes..pick some place thats not going to be overly crowded, and some where the two of you can enjoy yourselves.
2007-02-12 02:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, see how things pan out! What have you go to loose?
Prehapes a nice meal somewhere you feel comfortable or a trip to pictures?
You only live once so make the most of it take a risk.
Good luck hope it works out for you.
2007-02-12 02:30:17 · answer #7 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what you like. Go to dinner or suggest something out of the way for afterwards like bowling or skating. And getting him a card would be fine in my opinion.
2007-02-12 01:57:47 · answer #8 · answered by tinymight78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you go somewhere informal like the pub for a few drinks or go see a film.
not sure about the card though depends how long you've been dating but if you get one try a funny one
2007-02-12 02:13:47 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs.H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yes get him a card and take advantage of him wanting to take you out. You deserve it! I would go somewhere that you both would enjoy regardless. It doesn't have to be too expensive. It's the thought that counts, right?
2007-02-12 01:58:00 · answer #10 · answered by ********* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋