Does anyone think there is a person out there that you do not argue with and you just get along very well every day? Someone that never makes you mad or pushes your buttons? Just wondering because me and my bf have been arguing lately and it's getting on my nerves, but I dont want to just end it. We talk all the time about it. So, I would just like to hear your opinions please.....
2007-02-12 01:44:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This maybe a generic response, but since we don't know what you are arguing about and know very little about your relationship it is hard to make a proper judgement... but sometimes arguing is just growing pains within a relationship... try and not get angry with him, instead sit and talk to him about the things that are bothering you. Every couple argues (at some point) - and learning how to get through the arguments will only make your relationship stronger.
2007-02-12 01:49:10 · answer #1 · answered by Leah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the age old question however because you are both two separate entities and have your own opinions you will occasionally reach a point where you do not agree on a certain matter. Its always good to discuss and at some point one or the other or both will come up with a compromise.
The first phase of love leaves one sort of floating in air and then the reality sets in and your starting to see differences of opinion
Its normal and its very healthy especially if you are both willing to work at the issues.
Don't give up at the onset of problems for it happens in all relationships. Enjoy discovering the magic that can happen when you are talking and adventure in finding out.
The good part is that you not always give in and he not give in all the time too.
eventually that might bring up resentments.
Discuss and both come out on top without either of you being hurt. Stick to the topic and try not to sling words at each other that might hurt. Its an opinion that counts, that's what you are striving for.
Enjoy being in Love Its the best time of your life
Good Luck
2007-02-12 01:50:12 · answer #2 · answered by DreamWishper 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is someone out there who is right or perfect as you say for everyone
me and mine do not fight, argue, yell at each other or any of that crap...we might disagree sometimes, but always talk and work it out before it escalates to that crap you are talking about.
we are still learning each other, but we don't push each others buttons that we know about, we are best friends along with being in love.
I think you have to be best friends and in love to make it work the best. You both have to want it.
and again...YES, I do think there is a person out there that you don't argue with and that is meant for you and you alone.
be cool...
2007-02-12 01:52:00 · answer #3 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aye, there is someone perfect. My girlfriend and I never argue. We push eachothers buttons but in a playful manner and never cause harm. We love eachother and i believe yes, we are perfect for eachother. We are going to vegas in 6 months where we are going to become engaged. At least she doesnt know that yet, but we will.
2007-02-12 01:47:37 · answer #4 · answered by Drew 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse there isnt somebody perfect! You'll just have to go with someone you dont argue alot with, but everybody bickers and argues. If there's a good foundation arguments wont take away your love.
2007-02-12 01:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two different pepo raised by different pepo meet & try to work out some understanding,do u think there can think the same & not argue.Wats important is how u look at those argument.wats the cause,who thinks his right,who talks more than the other,whose awalys listening then u can give turns to talk & listen,go thru wat yo BF says just to show u are clear of what his saying,that way u less fights cuz u dont misunderstand each other
2007-02-12 01:53:37 · answer #6 · answered by lady x 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did think that once but that was a long time ago after 30 guys I believe there is no perfect person
2007-02-12 01:47:55 · answer #7 · answered by spawnof_thedevil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no perfect relationship. But there are great relationships, but they require work. and give and take. arguing is a part of all relationships. they are worth the effort though-dont give up so easy
2007-02-12 01:49:38 · answer #8 · answered by cici 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is someone perfect --- it does not mean you will never argue --- it means you will sit down and resolve problems as they come up --- rather than going off in a huff and allowing the differences to build up steam before a huge blow off
2007-02-12 01:50:36 · answer #9 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been happily unmarried for yrs and yrs
and i can not think of one time we have argued
when you are truly in love you dont push each others buttons and if one is mad you try to make them smile and laugh
my honey just is to fun to be angry with even when i try to be mad at him i can't
if he does something that really erks me he knows it and fixes it
2007-02-12 01:48:52 · answer #10 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋