i need relationship advice from guys and girls?

Question

me and my boyfriend recently broke up. i still love him but i dont know if he still loves me. now the reason we broke up because we're always fighting, but i always felt the fight was all about love (where there is love there is fight). He never even told me how i made him feel and how terrible it is to fight (plus his a shy guy). now i regret for being impatient and steamy at him. but is it worth the chance we can mend the relationship and start fresh? should i get him back or should i move on?

the reason i said where there is love ther eis a fight because sometimes i am upset about certain things. and i love him and i want the best for him and for us

Answer 1

I get the "where there is love, there is a fight". That's the way my last relationship was. We cared for each other so much but sometimes caring to much and not accepting stuff can really choke your relationship. If you believe that you love him, go over the signs of love that HE has shown for you. Does it seem that he loves you??(u don't always have to b told that you're loved to b loved.) If he does then it's probably worth a second chance. Call him no matter what and sort things out. Maybe he does finally say what you want to hear. Yet again maybe he doesn't...then at least you'll know if it's worth hoping on that bike again.

Answer 2

I was with a girl who always tried to argue and complain about everything and it really hurt me so I know how he feels... but you are thinking the right thing and I appreciate that, I think you shoul tell him you love him and you don't wanna fight anymore and give things a fresh try... it's valentines season maybe some magic will happen =) good luck love

Answer 3

If it is meant to be it will happen but if you to were fighting a lot that may not change and it may be OK for a while then he fighting will come back and it will just be a silly cycle over an over I think you should move on

Answer 4

honey, where the hell did u get the idea that where there is love there is fight? are u stupid or smth? where there is love there is tender and passion and joy. and people re on cloud nine and they can't get enpught of each other and they can't live without each other. they don't fight because they love each minute with each other, they don't have time for fight. so i say i don't love him, he doesn't love u, u just can't find someone else. so move on, maybe if u improve your awful temper u will find some other victim

Answer 5

Ya'll are just getting to know each other. Some people are really touchy about things and need approval. Many people miss out on a lot because fear of rejection (comes in many ways). Give it a moment to heal but stay loving.....

Answer 6

if he is good to you on all the ways i would tell you to take him back im a guy with same problem so i understand your question very well me been a guy i like to give love but also i like to receive love and girls sometimes have a very hard head and take a small love problem to the max and then is all gone if he loves you and you love him well let him know it and talk to him about what he likes and what you like also what he needs to know what he wants on his future life and you to and talk about it then make desisions......hope it helps and sorry for my english is not the best

Answer 7

It seems all you can really do in this situation is let him know how you feel and what you've learned and actually ACT DIFFERENT THIS TIME. If he is willing to give it another shot, then there you go. If not, at least you know that did what you could to make things right.

Answer 8

well u shud talk to him n tell him how u think about it now..........if he says he agrees to then u shud be having him this valentines day otherwise move on

Answer 9

tell him