i just met a guy and things are going well. I think hes taking it a little faster but im trying to take it as it comes. Havent been with anyone for a while so its all quite scary. Does anyone else find this and how do i get over it?
2007-02-12 01:05:59 · 10 answers · asked by Carrot 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Start as you mean to go on. With open honest conversation, tell him how you feel and where you want to head. Relationships are like houses, if you build them on solid foundations they last and work well, if you build them on sand and poor foundations of lies and none communication the cracks set in and the whole thing falls down. Just be honest have fun and see where things go, but talk....!
2007-02-12 03:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by djp6314 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down with him and tell him how you feel. Remind him that you two just met and it has been a long time since you have had a relationship. That you care about him. And your sure that your relationship could maybe progress but he needs to slow it down and be there for you. If the man is really into you, he will accept how you feel, and be willing to do this as long as it makes you happy. But don't be scared have fun and enjoy the time having someone. If it is not meant to be it won't, but if it is meant to be it will be. Your heart will tell you when your ready for love. And you have plenty of time to discover that. For now I say take one day at a time. Live for to day not the rest of your life.
2007-02-12 01:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by bnr6661 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think us guys tend to be quicker of the mark in a new relationship.For sure i was the same as your bf.It was pretty new for me as well, as i'd been lied & cheated on before & wasn't that keen at first.My adorable gf just slowed it down a little.She just said we've all the time in the world together.
I quickly realized i loved her so i just went with the flow.I didn't want to lose her.That was 15 months ago & we're still together!! So i guess the secret is to take it easy.Good luck!!
2007-02-12 15:18:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I steer sparkling of relationships of maximum varieties except in trouble-free words superficial, for the straightforward reason that i have had a lengthy way too a lot journey, and such issues do not very last. I actual have a negative habit of dropping acquaintances. on the different hand I actual have a very weak spot even as it includes certain females, and subsequently i choose to be somewhat on my preserve with some.
2016-11-27 03:39:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im kind of in a similar situation but in reverse roles...the guy i'm seeing is a friend of a friend who genuinely really likes me but he has only ever been in 1 relationship...he wants to take it slowly...very slowly! lol...its very difficult for me because i want to be with him all the time but know that i will ruin things if i dont let it progress in a way he feels comfortable with so im respecting his wishes. your guy should b able to do the same if he really likes u he will understand and slow things down a bit...relationships are always scary to embark on but u must b on the same page...enjoy what u have but dont let it run away with u if u dont want. good luck xx
2007-02-12 02:12:13 · answer #5 · answered by carly-jayne r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speak to him tell him you love how things are going but you feel he is moving to fast.
And with being scared, just enjoy it and you will remember how fun being in a fresh relationship is.
2007-02-12 02:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just enjoy it
dont rush it forward - enjoy each day and dont waste them looking too far forward
also dont smother him - give him space - make sure you still see your friends and dont give them all up for him
it will be more fun for you both that way
enjoy!!
2007-02-12 01:17:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i find this happens to me as well. be yourself, relax and have fun. u r right to take it as it comes, don't rush things.
2007-02-12 03:48:42 · answer #8 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lighten up - or it won't be a problem for long because he'll give up on you !
2007-02-12 01:48:21 · answer #9 · answered by misbehave4me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
speak to him and tell him that is going too fast fo you and explain him why he will understand
2007-02-12 01:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by grannyatlondon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋