ok...my parents are really really mad at me for recently breaking up with my boyfriend of over a year...but the truth is...i just didnt love him anymore!!...and they cant understand this....its been 2 months now and i have another boyfriend....and now they wont let me spend any time with him b/c they think im just gonna break up with him too!!...they got WAY too attached to my last boyfriend and now they wont forgive me....they act like they wud rather that i stayed with him and been unhappy so they are happy...rather than me be happy with the guy im with now....wat do i do?!!?...wat shud i tell them??...please help me!!!
2007-02-12 00:57:22 · 17 answers · asked by shsgrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
ok....btw i am 16 years old...but the way my parents are acting is they think i shud be figuring out who im marrying NOW!! but there's no point in that...im only 16...i WILL break up with ppl....
2007-02-12 01:14:46 · update #1
Calmly sit down with your parents and discuss with them that you don't want to be in a committed relationship although you may want to have male friends.As a parent and a grandparent .I would think that 16 is too young to be in a committed relationship.You have your entire life ahead of you. Your priority should be education first. You will have many opportunities and events you will want to experience in your life.Why would your parents want you to be in a committed relationship at such a young age. The person we are at 16 is not the same person we are at 21.The dreams and expectations also change with age.
2007-02-12 03:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by gussie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess your parent care for you and they want you to be with a well mannered guy (since u haven't mentioned why they got so attached to him i don't know though). The best thing u might do is tell them about your feelings i mean no parents would ever not try to understand their child. It might get hard at first but than again maybe i could use no pain no gain here lol. Or else maybe its not about the boyfren thing and maybe your getting something wrong so try to talk to them about it. I have no more to say than this if u can't talk to them face to face write it down on a piece of paper and leave it where they may find it and read it.
2007-02-12 01:38:16 · answer #2 · answered by sm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually ur very lucky that ur parents know abt ur affears & u dont have to kep seacrets. Welll ur parents & marriage the best option to do 4that is just try being friends with people if u like each other then be ready to commit dont be so physical with people that may be the reason ur parents act like they hate u ok Just make them understand ur point of view & make them undersatnd that u will not do anything of a kind that will put a bad name of ur family or anything wrong ok everything will be alll right ALL THE BEST. tc.
2007-02-12 02:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First we need to know how old you are and second if you can talk
to your parents fairly easy explain to them as you have to us.
Maybe they don't fully see how this is effecting you. Yes its great
to have your parents on your side but you are the one who has to
live with this person whom you do not care for. I suggest you
talk to them or if they are not the kind of people you can sit down
and talk to you should write it all down and explain how you really
feel. Tell them how you value their opinion and want very much
to please them in all you do but you feel this decision you've made is best for you at this time. Also tell them that if its a mis-
take then you will just have to suffer the consequences but you
would very much like them to back you and be there for you. Of
corse if all else fails.......AGREE TO DISAGREE!!!...Good Luck!!!
2007-02-12 01:12:46 · answer #4 · answered by Karen K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In their own minds, they think they are doing what is best for you so try to be a little forgiving. At the same time live your own life and do not back down by staying with someone you don't love.
2007-02-12 01:01:22 · answer #5 · answered by Huey from Ohio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and sit down and have a mature and adult conversation with them about the reasons why you broke up. I don't think your parents hate you, I think they just liked your ex-boyfriend and miss him!
Ask them is it important to them that you are happy? Good luck.
2007-02-12 01:01:47 · answer #6 · answered by Smokeabella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 16 yrs. old and it is commen in all teens that they get confused easily. I am also a teen. your parents just want to help you .They know your last boyfriend and are confident that he is a good person.Afterall they are much experienced then us so you should belive your parents. Or tell them your feelings and thoughts.Maybe they find them satisfying and are convinced by you. best of luck....
2007-02-12 02:37:54 · answer #7 · answered by kunj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell them why you broke up with him, there must have been a reason. did he cheat,caught with another,lazy,its your life and you should be certain of the guy your going to spend it with.If it dont feel right then its not meant to be.Some times parents will like the guy if hes a suck up and makes them think hes a good man by doing things that make them happy but your the one that has to make that decision providing your of age-- good luck
2007-02-12 01:09:56 · answer #8 · answered by bearman48064 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in their eyes that guy u were with was the best one for u n they just want the best for u so in their eyes that was the best for u n if u didnt luv him den its u should break up wit da guy n not waste ur time being wit him ur parents have to accept that ur only 16 n not 19
2007-02-12 01:35:00 · answer #9 · answered by sccrthugz4life 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sad =(. It's a good thing it isn't true...but with so many people in the world...I can't help but wonder if there is something like that in the world =(.
2016-05-24 00:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋