I've heard someone commented: When you really love someone and you don expect that person to return in any kind, then you are God not Human. What's your view?
2007-02-12 00:31:01 · 6 answers · asked by Serlina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love is inconditional, Did you know that ?.
Real love, is not about giving, it is about, sharing. When love is real "btwn 2 or more", you give and recieve, without expect.
Who said so?... "God not human" ?.
I don't know if this example is valid, but, somenthing general:
My brothers and sisters' kid: When i know that one of them, wants somenthing (material, a toy, xxxxx), and i buy it, what do i expect: Just that beautiful smile, just that happynes in their face, i want them to have what they wanted, nothing in return for me, except that joy in their hearts. That is real love.
A good treatment for me in my heart, to have no more pain when i am so hopeless in love with someone:
I Wish that Man to find a Good woman, who loves him, as much as i did. And that he gives her, all the love he denied to me.
BINGO, i start feeling better, believe me, it works, to me it works.
Boy or Girl, i don't know what you are, remember, this life is short, don't waste ur time expecting anybody to give you anything, start to Share with others.
2007-02-12 00:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by NA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a good question! - One I've grappled with for a while. All of my past relationships have been 95/5: me giving, the man taking. I did love them and I did give of myself unconditionally...but when I suddenly woke up one morning and thought that I deserved a little something back, did that mean that I wasn't doing it unconditionally all along?
I think there is a very fine line between giving unconditionally and being a doormat. If the other person never gives back, helps out, etc. they are using the one who gives. God didn't create humans to be able to act like Him. We are flawed and we do need affirmation from other people. We can give of ourselves, but if the other person really loved us, they would show appreciation.
JMO.
2007-02-12 09:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree completely...you would have to be God or a being like to expect nothing for your sacrifices and loyalties.No matter the love you feel..if there is no nurturing it will be lost.As humans we want to be in a place where we are loved and respected and where we can have the most sought after feeling of comfort. It would take someone of immense being to except life where they realize it's not going to be that way.Or friends who will never be loyal.We all hold hope for a while but total acceptance for someone who doesn't accept you? Definitely a holier than I will ever be.
2007-02-12 08:46:11 · answer #3 · answered by jen_n_tn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To tell you the truth I always wait for something in return when love someone! It's not right, but as you say I would be God otherwise!
I can't help it, when I give my heart to someone (friend-boyfriend etc). I don't know the reason! I think that it's in human's nature!
2007-02-12 08:35:55 · answer #4 · answered by Roubini 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course you want something
but
when the other person does not love you they do not return it
also remember men and woman are different
i show my honey how much i love him with different ways then he does
but if there is nothing there i would say walk find someone who treats you the way you treat them
2007-02-12 08:37:52 · answer #5 · answered by elite_women_rule_the_rock 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is dedication.love is fgiving in.but yeah the other person should return in this giving in.in kind or in cash is different issue.but reciprocation has to be there in any relatnshp.
2007-02-12 08:34:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋