me and my boyfriend had a massive row today over something so petty. he said himself he don't know why he acted like that with me. he's a bit older than me, he has a mate that he's always with and my boyfriend sed that his mate thinks i'm jus a kid, which i am not. my boyfriend sed he had a go at him for it, and that he's just jeolous coz he's with me and he aint got a girlfriend. i've done nothing to his mate for him to be like that with me. it just upsets me so much coz i know deep down my boyfriend probably believes him coz obviously it's his mate. don't know what to do. my boyfriend has a pop at me literally all the time for no reason, i'm really close to finishing it with him, thing is i love him so much. plz help
2007-02-12 00:28:01 · 7 answers · asked by Amy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like you said he is struggling to come to terms with his mate and you.
You are in a situation where you are making him choose between you and his mate.
It's going to be a tough one.
Good luck
2007-02-12 00:35:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are aguing about petty things and he's having a go at u all the time, its time to move on. it seems as if his mate is not a good friend and a bad influence. move on, u deserve more this. u love him but does he love u? i believe in love but if love means to be fighting and arguing all the time, i'm gone. life is too short to spend doing things that make u angry and upset.
2007-02-12 04:29:45 · answer #2 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe his friend is jealous because he doesnt have a girlfriend himself, and sees you as a threat to him.Give it time,and maybe try and fix him up with a girl to take his mind off interfering in your relationship.Your boyfriend may have something worrying him thats causing him to snap at you for no reason. some people find it hard to open up and talk about their feelings.Maybe you could encourage him, let him know he can trust you and tell you anything or he may end up pushing you away. good luck.
2007-02-12 00:35:29 · answer #3 · answered by Ramona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your bf's mate is obviously jealous of your relationship and your bf is probably torn between the both of u. but if your bf is treating u badly u should tell him...give it a go and if nothing changes get rid...u will fall in love again...good luck xx
2007-02-12 02:25:20 · answer #4 · answered by carly-jayne r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a kiwi GF, who was kinda had some friends/mates who are exactly like that. Anyways, it isn't the fights that matter. what matters is that you and your BF stick together.. Better things are coming if you stick with it.
Love will make us crazy, but it is worth it in the end.
2007-02-12 00:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
there are tons of men out there waiting for a good woman to come their way
dump the jerk and get on with your life
be cool...
2007-02-12 00:32:47 · answer #6 · answered by CC Babydoll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your boyfriend sounds like a jerk, my advice, "Dump Him".
2007-02-12 00:33:22 · answer #7 · answered by Studly Jim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋